Murders, Victims, Tragedys Will Increase in Kosovo

Last week another woman was killed in Kosovo by her former husband. The murder of women by men has become a very frequent phenomenon. Someone had calculated all the murders of this kind in the last few years in the country, and the number was quite disturbing: a hundred-one. What you find interesting is not the murder of women but the intensity added to women's murder. And the explanation cannot be such: we're in the background and that's it.

From the few conversations I had these days, and especially from my Facebook reactions, I noticed a tendency to look into the problem and thus narrow down and thus relativize. The blame was addressed to our patriarchal culture, or even more specifically, Albanian men who have the position of killing women.

Of course, Albanian men are at fault. Just as patriarchal culture is to blame. But the problem lies beyond these two addresses. First, it should be said that women of a traditional and patriarchal society themselves, through the social role they perform, cultivate, and maintain patriarchal practices. It takes little thought to realize that traditional women, more than men, fetish family comfort. And the same ones, like men, or even more than men, weomiotis prejudiced against other women, over other men, and above society. Speculation that may seem insignificant but that actually affects the way people live. Many people I know are moved by the chains of gossip, the bonds of morality of the most illiterate people in society. The rumor is kept from evolutionary perspective as the main element that formed the social animal we call a human millions of years ago. And its importance in a small nonvat country like Kosovo is too big than in a larger country. It is imperative that to understand the increased intensity of criminality in question, we consider cultural traits and also the informational developments that happened.

However, to avoid misunderstandings, something basic has to be said: the issue lies beyond the rude track division: men-men.

The murder of women by men occurs even in society far more developed and emocated. Even the intensity of the killings has increased over the past few years, as in Kosovo. In England and Wales, according to an article in The Guardian, 900 women have been killed in the last six years.

But return to Kosovo. I believe that this phenomenon, or the frequency of its occurrence, is the target of the gender issue done over the decade. Keep in mind that no progress takes place without causing collateral damage. Anti - Presidential femininism led to the disappearance of the patriarchal, women, and traditional men, even though such high - value progress would inevitably cause serious consequences in the lives of many individuals. The XIX century stands out for remarkable literature, and during this very century, the most valuable of developments took place. Literature was made on the tradition that produced the inevitable change of values. Yes, remarkable progress took place, but on the other hand, this was accompanied by small, daily, individual tragedies.

A large part of the feminists in Kosovo do not realize that changing values within a society requires prepared souls. It calls for willingness to face a violent parent who experiences your freedom as a overthrow of his world. It requires willingness to face all those kind, appreciative people.

The woman was long held as a property/goods. Either the same [virgin], or the only consumer [wife, mother], or both [prostitutions] like Luce Irigaray says. Men who are killing women are not doing this in a cold, calculated way. They're giving up their property, risking their own lives too. The killings show more acts of despair over the failure to constitute former powers over them. The murders also show the resistance of women and the latest case in Gjakova, in which the woman was separated from her husband and refused to join and well illustrates this issue and increased awareness of their rights.

In order for the number of victims to be as small as any gender, state mechanisms must function properly. The woman belongs to the state, not the husband. However, this inevitable too much money will produce victims and numerous family tragedies. And there's nothing wrong with that. No change occurs under ideal circumstances, and not followed by these tragedies!