Caught with boyfriend in bed, bride from Albania reveals secrets

In the several-minute video, the sister tells the woman “to see the eater, but the kids leave it alone”. The Nacay family from Coplic (the husband is in the U.S.) made the case public on TV, demanding that the two children be stopped by their mother, who caught her boyfriend but her father's family. The woman “protagonist” of the video has confessed today to the Albanian “Gaseta” its version of the truth.

According to L.N., private life is hers and no one can interfere. For her children, however, she says that she has raised them with sacrifices and claims that her spouse's family has systematically violated them.

In an interview with the Albanian “Gazeta, the woman says that for this video she was asked to her husband in the U.S. 800 thousand dollars by the groom of the house, Mrs. L., two days ago on the “Open Heart” was aired by a video of yours, and on the accusations of your husband's family, you were in a male society. What is your reaction to this? It's too heavy. But the fact is, they violated me. Who violated you? I've been raped by him, my ex-husband, who's been on the show, the groom, the brother-in-laws, and the husband mostly. He's been in America for four years and didn't know anything about where he's got a wife and kids. He left me with two elders. To a drunk and to the groom and sister-in-law. The biggest mistake that has been made is that the video is in there, without me being present and not calling me. I've been in court for seven months.

No, no one's ever called me, until we've been told they've been on video, so... I never knew what was done or how it was made

. How did you feel when you learned something like that?

I felt terrible. I'm so angry. I have six brothers, and we're so angry that no one has any idea because they committed a crime. That gentleman over there took the other bride and left me on the street, and he's taken and put videos there to sell it for money. That video was sold for cash. Those videos and I know where to take them. Those who did this to me should have contacted me once and not to put them through and see all Albanians. The whole world saw that video. We had eyes and feet. According to your father - in - law, because you yourself call it such, the sexual scene you've performed with your mistress has occurred in the bedroom.

What is your argument for this?

Law and private life is mine. For four years they don't know where a woman is and where the kids I have born and raised are. He has a drunkard who's only a groom and my brother-in-law to come to him. And they were sold for money. Now, what I do myself... I'm gonna crash somewhere when no god comes up. I went to my family and now I live with them. I thank them so much because these guys have been supporting me.

Will you file a trial for this?

The husband, or rather, these five people have been in the prosecutor for seven months. For what, specifically? For this matter. I have photos, I have messages that the groom started with my husband over there asking for money. Money for what? Did you mean they were asked before this video was made? Yeah, he asked for money. The groom told him you'd give me 800 grand. I got the messages I found on the edge when you're talking about who are you talking about? The groom is the sister-in-law. The groom of the house. He asked my husband for money when this job was open. The money was required for no video publication? Yeah. He told him to bring me 800 grand, or I'll put you in the blood. My husband wrote with his sister and told her he asked me for money. L. It's my husband's sister's husband's husband. This has been done by his father - in - law, son - in - law, and wife. It was only for money. My kids have terrorized. I asked the state for help and I thank him very much, because I called him at that moment and I said “I want help” I have two minor children I raised at the point of trouble. He's been on the road for four years, with a drunk... I do not know how I should appreciate it. Those people have ruined my life. Your husband went on a phone call saying he was aware of this fact and that he was the one who wanted to make this video... He's got a nose. I have messages. The court has opened up to take away my children and leave them to that drunk. That he took me and left them with my stepmother there. You're saying stepmother.

Do you think your husband has an extra-marriage relationship?

No, I mean, but I have facts. I've been there for so many years and they told me, but I didn't believe it. He called me, insulted my family, insulted me. I told him what you got? Yeah, I got the picture. All family members tell them to eat “ ” and “grow old together” The one who left a woman and two children in Albania, who has gone there for a better life, for two minor children! For a woman, whether bad or good, they have bound her and chosen her. So taking your family astray is easy. How has your relationship been during the four years your husband has been abroad? My relationship... every time he called me, he threatened me, he used to swear at me, his family. I pray to you, we highlanders say to pray to you like Christ what you have. The normal one that two women can't hold on to, that he'll give one of them the wrong way. He wanted to hold her and give me the bad way. These are kind of criminals. I'm meat and blood, too. There must be a right to be given. Not given the right to the money.

What age do you have?

I am 32 years old. My life is bound only to two children. I'm gonna die and these two kids aren't gonna leave them on the street. Your husband and father-in-law asked to take custody of the children... My children never! My children will never go without cutting me off. That I raised my children. My father-in-law and the others didn't bring me any chocolate for my kids. Well, I asked my husband with my heart for $200 just to eat. I've already had enough of my brothers. I have four brothers outside. They told me why I didn't tell them and why I came to this degree.

How have you had a relationship with your husband's family?

I've had my relationship with them too, because I don't want to offend them today that I've had this defeat with them. All I've had is half of them, because my family kept me. Have you ever had a fight with them? I've only had fights when I was being violated. With them, I have played games to overcome even stress. I swear, I've never had a fight with them or anyone else. Except for this case. How many years have you been married and how many children have you had? I've been married for nine years. I have an 8-year-old daughter and a 4-year-old son. After the video was released, have you contacted your mate or his family? No, I didn't communicate with them because they committed a very serious crime. I've left it to state law myself. I'll never call him myself. My kids are right next to me. Their father is their father. If he remembers children, let him do them. For someone else, there is no aunt, no grandfather, no grandmother. They have them, be they fat, but they've made me a life of scandals. How did your family expect your relationship outside- marriage? Did he support you? I'm on your knees. I told you if you don't support me, I'll commit suicide. Has the other person on your side supported you, and has you already been guaranteed? Which person, because I don't understand. In the video I released, it was claimed you had an extramarital relationship. The person on your side... The person... what has been done is done. I'm not even connected anymore. Nothing familiar with him, nothing. He has his life, we had our lives. So it's all done, it's about my husband, that he didn't know where his family was, that day for anything. I and my brothers will try to raise these two children as much as we can because I don't take them to criminals anymore. To an old man who gets sick and it was me who took him to the hospital for 12 nights with my money. What do you think your future will be now? My future will be costing only to my two children. Will you file a trial after this happened? There's no other case for me anymore. The case is only the court and prosecution we've gone.

Whatever the court decides, I'm right with the vents, but my kids, without cutting me in my neck, don't have to worry. Is the trial open to you or the other side? It's open on the other side of the video. Please delete the video, delete the items. Basically, what did they bring you in for? That was to get my kids. He took money, got my husband's nose. You understand my soul. They want me to take my kids and go to America to be with them. With all my stepchildren, never! Never will I die! When I die, do whatever they want. Never, because he doesn't have a family. The family has come into the hands of elders, in the hands of the bridegroom, in the hands of his brother - in - law, and in his hand. That's the truth. I'm ready to talk about everything because they ruined my life. I am 32 years old, and I have devoted my life to only two minor children. It's become a huge crime to get that video out of me. You think you're going to make your own judgment? I've left it up to the state to deal with these criminals. Because life is mine, the body is mine. I never raped children, I never beat them up, I raised them like doves. I swear I raised them like doves. Eating and studying for all. You said you were violated by your husband, father-in-law and other family members... Yeah, I'm all raped. Why didn't you report them? I denounced them when this case opened. I went to get my kids and they didn't leave me. Since your two children are underage, have you talked with them if their father is sought? They want their father when I mention them to them. I also had psychologists when they were interrogating and asked if he missed Daddy or they wanted to talk to him, they said “po”. When asked if he missed him more or less, they said “ply”. During the four years your husband has been in America, how often has your communication been with him? We communicated once every 10 days or two weeks. I swear. There have been just a few occasions that he would take every day or three or four days. I used to be crazy and I wrote it myself, and he used to say to me that it's easy for you to do it, but we're going to be at “. Have you ever asked him why he rarely took you?

Yeah, I've asked him every time. What's wrong? I told him. Did you go for a better life, for your children and for your wife when you knew we had no home, no land and nothing, what you went there for? He used to tell me this way, but that way, I don't want to live. And I who shouted to him that whatever trouble you have, we will make sacrifice. I cried every time, I swear. What's your family income like? You work? Our income is very good. We have agriculture, livestock, we have homes. I have four brothers out there, and they've kept me from getting married until now. I'm the only girl, sister of six brothers. I swear I can't tell you all the trouble I went through at their door. God forbid to give what I've taken away. A 32-year-old to stay in the mercy of fate and raise two small children is a major crime (sun). I've taken it myself in love and done this to me, to draw me video... I am very strong because I also have a very wonderful family, but I hate that they humbled me like this. My husband was taken in love, and my family didn't want to give it to me. But with them I ruined my life.