Friends and sexual partners? Here's what you need to know.

Can you have sex with a friend or friend? Friends with benefits or sex Buddhas, we've heard, we've read, we've watched movies, we've had ourselves, and maybe we have.

To begin with, are those two terms synonymous?

There are different ideas about that. Some say that friends with benefits and sex friends are the same, others think differently. But I like to make a difference between them myself. Friends with benefits according to the sense that I choose to accept, are two good friends who have chosen to express their friendship in physical and sexual fields. While sex friends are mostly friends because they have sex together. So if two friends with benefits don't have sex priority, because their dating isn't meant to involve sex, but they rarely/evenly have sex, sex friends have the main reason for their relationship. Have you ever gone with someone with whom you have nothing in common, nor do you like to spend time out of bed together, but both of you worship and do it? These are sexy friends!

Today, though, I want to stop alone with my friends with benefits.

First I remember what a friend of mine told me when we were talking about this subject. I was asking her about the experiences of the profitable friends she had, but while I expected answers, she asked me what best friends are! I began to explain uncertainly whether he was serious when he interrupted me by saying: “in 2018, at a time when clean and unimpressed society has become so difficult, the rich of a friend isn't good enough? Or when you fuck with your friend, it's called profit? That made me deep, and today I believe he's right. Sex is a normal part of life, just like any other area where we have different friends, we have different activities. Some of us share favor with music and holidays, and some others we watch soccer and drink beer, while others discuss philosophy. We didn't give an appendix to any of the first names “ “ ”, but if with someone other than that, we also have sex to say “to friends with benefits”. Less, our entire social relationship is determined by a detail.
I personally view sex as more than physical. Sex is made with people you share a relationship with (not talking about romantic dating), closeness, trust, people you feel good and comfortable with. To me, the comparable and more approachable activity of sex is sharing a cigarette. You don't share a cigarette with a stranger on the street, smoke it with someone who feels a positive vein. You've had a conversation” we're talking about, and of course, when you split a cigarette you don't just smoke, but talk and create closeness. So, like sex, smoking a cigarette is a ritual.
Now we get to the hard part. The good and bad sex with a friend.

The good ones are too much, but among them I can count:

Health reasons by getting familiar with the person you're going to, the probabitalit is too high to know about his state of health. To know how many past “is” And for the young girl you met drunk and never saw again after that night, how sure can you be?
Quiet and relaxed since you've known each other for too long and you've been through a lot of things together with performance pressure. Less words “you have no shame”!

I know more physically about him because you've been friends for some time then you're probably the sex subject before and he or she told you about the different favors and dislikes. While spending time with someone else on the discovery, in this case you're doing it right and doing it and having fun.
Faithfulness especially in Albanian reality, it's very important that the person you're going to, not wine the wire. What you two do is only between you two.

And two good friends “Never kick and tell”!

Atmosphera hey, you're friends first! Periods, from round to round, you have thousands of things to fill. Like you could go on with that conversation about Socrates you were doing in coffee.

The lack of fun is not in the mood for fighting today! No problem! Besides sex you have a lot of other things you do together.
The experiment. That style you wanted to try, but it's hard for you to look for. Tell your friend.
The mutual liberation of sexual tension ? not “blowe balls” for the boy and not for the girl, who can put you into someone's bed that will tear you down. That way you're calm and logical in selecting the next partner.
Humor is fun!
And I'm sure everyone can add who knows how many other points on this list, but a coin always has two sides.
The first one would be a lack of sincerity when one of the two asks for more friendship and hopes that through sex he can do something. This is a case that happens, but it almost never ends well. It's a trick and a friend never gets fooled. The birth of feelings I don't know if they should be put on a list of negatives, but I believe it's impossible for you to have affection for your friend or girlfriend having sex. Feelings only if they've existed hidden and sex has become a cause for their surface appearance.

If the other one creates a relationship, you risk being alone. And at worst, when my friend's boyfriend or new girlfriend finds out you used to. Will he/she believe you don't yet?

When you're dealing with people who don't get sex that much sports. Not everyone has the same sense of sex. We need to understand that while you know how to have sex and not romantically involved, there are people who are impossible. For those sex people, it is synonymous with love and can be deeply hurt by such a relationship. Not everything is for everyone, in life.

Feeling guilt or shame is easy to get naked when you're half drunk and excited. But once you are finished, you may be overwhelmed by guilt and shame over what happened. This often results from overthinking. Remember! Do you feel ashamed to smoke a cigarette together? It's the same thing. Stand up, laugh and decide to continue based on your experience. You may want to continue this game, but you may want to quit. It happened! To pretend that it hasn't happened only makes your situation worse and basically damages your society. It may seem strange to be sitting down again for beer and the usual talk after seeing his/her orgasm's face. Yeah, you've seen her, too! And nothing changed, right?
It should be noted, however, that the foregoing has also become a cause for total breakdown in society between two people. It's not meant to happen to you, because on the other hand, there are times when friends who have had sex together have kept their company for many years, even after the sex part is closed. The key is communication! Talk and there's no obstacle beyond that.

Finally, we go back to the first question. Can you have sex with a friend or friend? No one can give the final answer to that question, much less me. Personally, I think it's possible. But your relationship with one person is completely personal. You know how you feel and what you do together. Consequently, if you can add to your social relationship even to sex, you can judge it only. /Zakklin Lacatari/ Blog Tab