Two Errors Distincting Your Connection

Psychologist Dr. John Gottman can predict with 91% accuracy if a connection is coming to an end.

His prognosis is based on observing couples arguing.

After devoting his life to the study of couples, Dr. Gottman found that those who divide have a tendency to argue in certain ways.

Criticals

Criticism is a way of dealing with a problem that involves attacking and blaming another person. When you criticize your partner, you're implying seconds or something wrong and unchanged in him, especially since criticism often carries words “ “ ” and “immediately”.

This makes a partner feel attacked and rejected, and there is no other way to react except in self - defense.

If you find yourself saying things like “you never feel it” or very selfish “”, then this thing will bring you the end of the relationship.

Refuse to Communication

The refusal to communicate occurs when you put a wall between you and your partner by pulling out of the argument, unable to make any effort to start the conversation again, and distance yourself physically and emotionally.

This habit is destructive because it allows your partner to feel rejected and abandoned.

If in a fight you have a tendency to walk away and pretend to get caught, then this thing will destroy your relationship, so you have to change it.