Before we say “YES” At the altar, couples therapist suggests that we have filled this fundamental condition

The summer of 2018 was a season dedicated to novels “rruffe”. Initially, Justin Bieber and Hailey Baldwin were engaged in July, and after two months they said “PO” on the altar.

Then we have a very talked engagement between Priyanka Chopra and Nick Jonas, just two months later.

And of course, there was Ariana Grande with Pete Davidson, who got together in May, got engaged in June and split in October.

Therapist Emily de Ayala shows that couples who drive their relationship by doing serious things often confuse intimacy with the intensity of the relationship. According to her, without at least a year of being together, do not promise serious relationships. After all, you must enjoy the time of falling in love.

The start of the relationship is, of course, the honeymoon for a couple, which lasts about 18 months at most. And at this point they rush to do serious things, certainly under the influence of hormones. But if a couple can stay strong and very close after that, then they're made for each other. But if things change when partners feel like they're getting choked up and they decide to split up immediately” the therapist told “InStyle”

She explains that separation can be a trauma to your partners, and fallings in connection can lead to depression. Take the right time to recover, and in the next relationship, take slow, secure steps.

Make sure to set boundaries in connection and respect personal space. If you haven't been together 18 months yet, don't make any plans for the future. It's a matter of being kidnapped from the moment, but the good news is that everything is going to be taken easy”