Terrible: After 4 years of marriage, they realized they were brother and sister.

The following can you read his full confession:

I had a wonderful wife and a great boy, but now my life is broken because I married my sister without knowing she was my sister.
I'm 39-year-old and married late at the age of 35.
I knew since I was a child that I was adopted.
I loved my parents who adopted me, but I always felt unstopped.
My life was amazed when I met a girl.
She was five years younger than I was and immediately pulled me.
When we spoke, she told me that she was also adopted.
Everything came into place after I realized that I had found someone who knew how I felt.
She had the same doubts and feelings of lack of connection as I did.
From that day on, we were inseparable.
I felt like I had finally found what I wanted.
A year later, we married and gave birth to a wonderful son who is now three years old.
Like a fool, I felt I had a lost part, so I wanted to find my real mother.
That would be nice too, but I asked my wife to find her own.
We can do it together, I said.
But, tracking our nine, we ended up in the same place. We found out they had the same mother.
My wife was destroyed and she moved with our son the same day.
She said she felt polluted inside.
I've tried to convince her that we're still the same people that as crazy as we fell in love, but she just won't listen and blame me for all this mess.
We're divorced and she's out of the circle, taking our son with her.
Now I'm going to the courts just to get to see him again.
I know I'm drinking too much, but people laugh at me behind my back.
I'm desperate and I have to do something to get rid of the pain.
The psychologist's response:
I'm so sorry about all of you. This wasn't anybody's fault, but the damage is so great.
Your wife feels the need for someone to blame, but it's totally wrong for her to blame you.
I'm sure she wants to protect your little boy from truth, but she can't rewrite the story for him.
Contact “Families need fathers” to help parents be there for their children after a family destruction. They can help you cope with all this pain.
I understand the temptation to drink, but it will not help make your fight a part of your son's life.
Instead, I suggest that you look at your doctor and ask for a reference to counseling, and perhaps even a prescription for antidepressive drugs to help you through this difficult time.
For now, live your life this way. Please tell me how this will work.