Why do we fight if we're meant for each other?

It's just a temporary situation, covered by emotion. That's the nature of the fights. They're intense. Even when conflict breaks out over a small matter, you may feel that it is the end of the world. You both focus on everything you're fighting for. That's perfectly normal.

Likewise, arguments tend to bring fear, uncertainty, and even the pain that has been experienced on the surface. These are some powerful emotions. So powerful, that almost all your attention is stuck on them.

Of course you still love him and he still wants you. This reality does not disappear simply because there is conflict. But you can't feel it in the middle of a war. The main thing to remember is that love is much more than a feeling. It's something much deeper.

Besides, there's nothing outside of you you to follow. There's something inside of you that you need to feed. Do not be afraid when a sense of love seems to disappear in the midst of conflict. Instead, try to focus on solutions.

Remember, this will be difficult, because you will want to focus on those feelings of anger, fear and pain.

When the conflict ends, remember that love is an active choice. It's something that starts inside you. There's no need to worry about those times when you don't feel love. Every relationship goes through this. Concern about this will only rob you of joy that you may feel differently.

Rather, focus on your choice of love. After all, our ability to create love with those interested in us is powerful. Use this power as often as you can.