How can we react when our children argue?

Unfortunately, reality can often be completely different. So we set rules and limits on how children not to fight. Again, however, arguments occur that simply do not prevent us. Until we can react, it often gets late. And they all suffer pain. How we deal with these moments, what tone do we talk to and what [...]
Unfortunately, reality can often be completely different. So we set rules and limits on how children not to fight.
Again, however, arguments occur that simply do not prevent us.
Until we can react, it often gets late. And they all suffer pain.
How we deal with these moments, what tone we talk about and what words we use will affect our children more than all the clarifications before or after the incident.
If you in difficult times show sorrow and compassion, your child will in time begin to react similarly.
Surely not immediately in the case of the next dispute, but once certainly.
Even at the height of the argument, the child records every movement, sight, and purpose.
Parents make many mistakes when they get involved in their children's disputes, becoming their own master, reprimanding or beating the foreign child, who is often even innocent.
The primary blame for this falls first on the parents of the crying child, since they do not know their own child well, or they have it for their havings, oversaw it, preserve it, stand up to God, and favor it beyond measure.
So instead of learning to treat people both with siblings and with friends and friends outside the home, avoid offending them, resolve the personal differences that he may have with them, and not seek to be privileged to be played by others.
Thus, the parent, not knowing her sobbing, who instantly complains and blames others for everything and does not take time to prevent her from becoming a habit, allows her child to go on a wrong path and to be ill educated.
Such children, who have always been taught and have been made to complain and blame their brothers, sisters, or friends and always try to tearfully find mistakes and faults in others, day-to-days coming up with their vices and becoming even more lying, more stubborn, more sensibly.
All of this also affects the formation of a child's character, inadequacy, and inadequacy in the future.
It is even dangerous that if parents fail to take time to combat their child's guilt habit, it may later turn into slander, a habit that is the quality of weak people.










