22-year-old confession: I had amazing sex with my brother's ex-girlfriend, but what happened next...

A 21-year-old boy confessed to The Sun that he had sex with his brother's ex-girlfriend while he was in relation to another girl, but that she was in her parents, the world follows today. She had provoked him and the boy had ended up in her trap, where they had [...]
A 21-year-old boy confessed to The Sun that he had sex with his brother's ex-girlfriend while he was in relation to another girl, but that she was in her parents, the world follows today.
She had provoked her and the boy had ended up in her trap, where they had sex.
She told him she wouldn't tell anyone, but then she found out on Facebook and the boy was abandoned by her girlfriend, and now she doesn't know what to do.
You can read the boy's full story below:
I'm 22 years old, my brother 24 years and his ex-girlfriend is 21 years old.
She was about my boyfriend for six months but broke up after she broke her heart going with one of his friends.
It's a banned name in our house.
My girlfriend's 21. She was away with her parents visiting and I was staying home. But a friend convinced me to go to a party. At this party I saw my brother's ex-girlfriend in the kitchen. I tried to avoid him, but he heard I was there and came to say hello.
She found me again later in the evening after both of us were drunk. She sat on her lap and asked about my brother and how things were going with my girlfriend. They were in the same school together.
She began to cry, saying that she was envious of our relationships. I put my arms around her to comfort her, but I ended up kissing her and suddenly she was all over like a frying.
I knew it was wrong and I left, but she whispered in my ear: “Let's go upstairs.” We ended up having sex.
She said she wouldn't tell anyone and, like an idiot, I trusted her. Two days later, she dropped a flirtic message on Facebook and, of course, soon everyone was talking about it.
My girlfriend went crazy. She hates this girl I fucked and refused to forgive me. She left me that day and I know I lost her. This whole thing makes me crazy.
I'm sorry about what happened because I'm still deeply in love with my girlfriend. This girl has emotionally blackmailed me.
That's the answer to psychologist Deidre:
Be honest this wasn't emotional blackmail. This girl may be in trouble, but you were drunk and weak. You've had a choice and you have to take full responsibility for the decision you made.
Maybe everything feels a lot heavier because it wasn't just some girl, but someone who has history with your brother, your family, and even me, who knows her from old time.
Maybe there was a bit of brotherly rivalry going on in your head back then, though unconsciously, and you loved the girl your brother loved.
If your love was strong, it is possible to rebuild it, assuming that it is willing to prove it.











