Female psychologist advice: To be happy, change your partner every five years.

Spanish psychologist Rafael Santadreu in his book “Las gafas de la Felifidad”, says that human beings are not designed to be monogamous and that you think the roots of our most serious problems have to do with this.

As noted in an interview: “E we live in love as unnatural and we understand it closely, and that's why it works bad”.

The psychologist's proposal is a kind of advice on female superiority, which says, if relations are transformed, women will naturally achieve freedom in the field of intimacy:

In our private lives, we're very printed, especially the wife. We live very deprived. ”

With this new model, away from monogamy, we would solve all the problems of jealousy or addiction. The main reason many people commit suicide is a lack of love, not of work or of serious illness. Looking at this perspective, there is clearly a “conventional prison model”. To change partners, according to one planning, has nothing to do with freedom, and a mere number of years. The idea lies in something interesting: giving up the happy “thought forever”. This is essential. ”

However, the author may forget that not only love or initial passion are those who matter in the field of relationships but what comes later. What would be the individual evolution without the human daily, the courage and the emotional work that comes from the next?

Beyond the pros and cons of his proposals, Santadreu reminds us that we must give up models. He recommends that you get out of a relationship before you get hurt, or you start imposing would be better.

Just because we tend to hold on (there's something human that forces you to stop, until you've lost everything), it's essential to know that separation is always a viable option.

Nothing lasts forever. Time, however, is a personal matter and not something that can or should be subject to the time of a self-help book.