If you do not answer these questions sincerely, never marry

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Before that, there are many questions you need to ask yourself. Maybe you're together long enough and now you're ready to take another and very serious step, or maybe you're looking at another side of the partner and you're not convinced if you want to change the course. Whatever the situation, a “check is not a bad idea at all. Read the following questions about your relationship and then decide.

Before the final decision, you should have this serious conversation with yourself and after that, ready to enjoy the island of dreams.

Is this relationship making you better or worse?

Partner is one of those people who does everything you can to get your best side or doesn't it worry every time you're not in your best state?

Do you really accept each other the way you are?

There will always be things you will change about your partner, but no one will be in such situations to ignore your partner's feelings. No one is perfect, and being flexible in a relationship is an indication that it will be long.

Who am I?

How do you know if your partner is the one if he doesn't even have the slightest idea who you are?

Am I happy in this relationship?

The idea of sharing life together is not to find someone who can fill you and make you happy. Let's be honest: Not being happy at home is a reason to think twice about the relationship. But even marrying someone in the hope that he can change things is a very, very bad idea.

Am I isolated?

Will you devote your relationship to most of the time, or do you feel compelled to do so because of your partner? Isolation in a relationship is never good, so first of all, explain with yourself the time you're spending on this relationship.

What position will I take for the past?

If you have left everything behind and you think only about the future, make sure that your partner does the same and sees the future as you do. Then you will be sure of that relationship.

Is the relationship balanced?

You feel like you're both on the same page and you're looking out for each other, compromise, support and sacrifice the same for your partner? Or does one always do more?

Do we have fun together?

Have you seen couples spend every single day together having a lot of fun with each other? Are you one of them?

Who am I in this relationship?

That's a question you ask yourself, because you respect, love, believe and appreciate the person in your arm, or are you worried because he's not at the same length as you?

Will it work?

Living in the present is beautiful, but of course the relationship needs a future plan as well.

Do I really trust my partner?

For some, the immediate answer would be “po”. If you are such a person, it is time to ask yourself why and how you blindly believe them. Without answering, you have no chance.

Does he deserve me?

Knowing what you are looking for from your partner today is an issue that you cannot answer immediately, but to appreciate yourself is also an important point. Everyone goes through this comparison phase.

Does he physically attract me?

Physical attraction is the most important thing in a relationship that keeps the relationship alive, but it is not the right decision to be with a person who does not attract you physically.

Am I going to be a parent or a partner?

Caring for your partner is the normal thing you can do, but you should never cross the limit. You can't treat him like a child and be a parent. Who wants to sleep with Mom in the same room?

Do we have the same view?

Some couples avoid arguing about religion, marriage, or children because they feel that they may not be known when such things will come naturally. In this case, they make choices more complicated and situations more difficult.

Are we gonna grow up together?

Have you ever wondered if you're a partner who wants to grow up with the one you've chosen to spend your life with?

Will it still be me?

Falling in love with someone does not mean changing identity. You can't be what you're not just because he loves you.

What is my way in this relationship?

Just intuition is enough: Listen to what your heart says.