What you should know before you first have sex

There are some experiences in the life of an incredible woman. Before your first periods arrive, it is difficult to understand how you will feel, what pain you will experience.

Before your first kiss, it's too strange to imagine your face next to another and tongue kisses. The same is true before first sexual intercourse. No matter what your background, age, or experience, having sex for the first time is a big deal.

You can (and have) prepare for it as much as possible, but you still can't know exactly what it feels like to have sex. Here some women have shared their experiences with Vogue Teen, which you should read before you act.

That not all women are bleeding.

Forget movies with white sheets and red stamps on television. To avoid bleeding is normal, and that does not mean that you were not a virgin.

That won't be as emotional as you thought.

Sex may not change the way you feel about that person from the first time. It's going to take some experience to figure out how you feel and whether it's complementary sex in your relationship.

That even virgin males can have sexually transmitted diseases.

Even if the boy has never been with a woman, he has to be tested before you do anything together. There are women who have contracted diseases from the male because they have not worn condoms. It can happen to you, and it really hurts your life.

That you don't want to see fireworks.

Don't expect it to be a big deal the first time. Sometimes you create fantasies in your mind for a long time, and when sex happens, you get disappointed.

You should've waited for your drink.

I thought I'd lose my anxiety and emotions if I had a few drinks before, but that actually showed I wasn't ready and I shouldn't have done it”, has confessed to a woman who had the same experience.

That'll take a while until you feel good.

The first or third time may not seem pleasing to you until it becomes a routine that will require shame.

That your partner is also afraid.

You're not the only one who's scared. Even the partner is afraid of how the first time it's going to go with you and have enough fun. Remember, men care about performance.

It will hurt, but it can be met.

Don't look this way. Yeah, it's gonna hurt, but if you keep your mind on it, it'll lose all the magic.

You shouldn't have told anyone but your best friend.

Even though you're dying to tell about the experience that awaits you, it's better to talk to people who are trusted because you don't know how things are going to go.