What is your marriage?

Children do not strengthen their marriage. Where she has a good marriage, she can become even better with her children. Where marriage is not good, it gets worse with children. Lasting marriages are stable no matter how many children there are. That is, the child is just like marriage.

What causes a child to develop wrongly is a lack of warmth, security, and authority in his parents themselves. Because if the child is really disabled at first, from whom he will receive that first impulse to safety and care if not from his parents. He has no other criterion for his worth but his closeest admission.

The only child accepts the second child as he is. The child is just a child. Adults see each other as they would like to be, or as they wish to be themselves, and as they convince themselves (if they convince them) that people are not, they criticize them, in a word, refuse to accept them as equals in the game of adults, to accept them as they really are.

Little child more than ever needed attention, companionship, protection, moral courage and love. The assumption is that love actually arises in the early period of life, when the child feels that his need for security is relatively fulfilled and, by the way, on the part of his mother, who invests her self - sacrificing feelings in all of this. Says Vladette Jerotic, neuropsychiater and psychotherapy.