Painful confession of the father of two Decani boys who died tragicly in Germany

They live there since 1989. Arifi, an employee of a post office in Germany and his wife in a teaching profession.

On the day of the tragedy, where the train took the lives of his two sons a 17 - year - old and the other 14 - as the family usually began the day - going off to work, Arifi relates that the wife as every day escorts the children to where they take the train to school.

As the children leave their mother's car, they rush to the train station. The wife was parking the car, they rushed and the fatal accident in which Hasan and Blerian died took place. The event touched on small and great, but those who have experienced all that was the other brother and two parents. The father of the two Arif Arifay boys has confessed to the open-hearted “show” in News24 how he learned the news and all the details from the tragedy.

He said that the woman has seen the entire heavy scene when she has found the two boys on the tracks, and the only comfort is the boy left alive.

The kids get up at 6:30 and the train leaves from 7:10 and the woman takes them to the train. When the woman got there, the obstacles were sitting. She left the kids and went to park the car. The children have seen the school train stopped and have made the decision to move on. It wasn't the first time my kids go through like my kids. I think the train that came was late. That train never came at that time. And my kids' friends and people told me that train was never here at the time. Guys are in with red lights. They don't always pass, but when they're late, other kids come in and it hasn't happened in 17 years, but it happened. The barrier has been lowered and the red light. Probably like the kids who had their own euphoria that the train was about to go off and they're going to be”, he said.

Arifi said it is wrong that regional trains quickly switch to residential centres and stations and appealed for changing the law in Germany. He related and received the sad news from the boy who escaped while he was 18 km away.

Whatever their way in is a big mistake that regional trains should slow down when they arrive at stations. A law must be passed so that the speed of trains can be reduced to stations where there are children going to school or at times when there are children. It was a distance of 5 meters to pass. I was at work then, and no phone allowed. I saw her by accident, and I had 30 phone calls from my wife and my other son. I'm calling my son and he told me very calmly what had happened. I was shocked. I delivered the car keys and told the boss and I left. I was 18 km away and I don't know how I got that road. And on the way my son called and Dad told me not to hurry, come slowly but didn't tell me they were dead. And the doctors called me and told me to come slowly but they didn't tell me if they were dead or not”, Dad cried.

Most of it was when the woman found dead boys on the train tracks and even touched them. Big concern is their psychological and spiritual state after seeing the entire scene.

The wife, returning to the children after taking the car to the parking lot, has seen her take the two children. The third son didn't even see it. He saw the guys on the track, on the railroad, he touched them. He thought there was only one of the guys on the railroad, then he saw the second one. The other guy called her, I'm here and she's back. The surviving boy makes them in January 16.
He was a few inches away from the others. He looked them up. He's calm, not like before, he's hurt, but he's not what he used to be, just like me and my family. It's a very difficult thing”, Arifi said.

He claimed there have been reactions from institutions in Germany, from all institutions, and from the school where children were studying.