9 hours agoDivorce is not a failure.
Periskopi(6 years ago)
(6 years ago)Marriage is designed to move people to adulthood. If after you experience everything, even a couple's therapy, divorce is the solution, that is never a sign of failure. Supporters of this idea are psychologists who are experts in marriage relations and propose an alternative vision for what is always considered the most [...] end.
Marriage makes people grow up. You challenge, you expose selfishness and immatureness and that's a very good thing. She'll constantly ask you to grow up in a way you haven't known before.
Often, one of the two partners or both of them realize dramatically that marriage is not helping them with the life they loved. Making a decision to divorce is often one of the best choices. It is synonymous with growth, maturity over time, leading to researching things different from those acquired in an earlier period.
Many will feel that it is futile to marry if marriage inevitably leads to change - but this change itself is very difficult to achieve differently. Moreover, it is said that a change always leads to divorce - changes can strengthen or weaken a couple - all in the matter of efficiency.
It is by acknowledging the inevitability of a change in relationships - fear of the challenges facing marriage - that you should never face your own weaknesses.
Banking is not divorce, but staying in a marriage that absorbs your life and energy. A couple do not fail when they decide to divorce, but when they avoid handling the situation. Divorce does not mean bankruptcy because each relationship teaches something - even the need for another relationship.
The beauty of marriage is the purpose of being with a man forever, but at the same time, I knew that things could change to that common point. Success means that in life everything that keeps changing is alive.
