How to understand what you like in bed

Imagine you're in bed with your partner and he asks you “what do you want us to do now? On the surface, he's taking care of you. But at that moment, many people panic and fail to respond. This is because they don't know themselves sexually. They don't understand what they want or what they like. If you think of sexuality as an unknown part of yourself, read below to find out what you like.

Start With Simple Things

Most do not realize they know enough about their preferences in bed. When you hear the question “s like you,” builds a complicated scenario in their minds unnecessarily. The answer needs to be two long paragraphs. It could be something like “I like sweet kisses” or “I like to be fed after sex.” Keep in mind, too, that the things you like in bed don't have to be exclusively orgasmic. As long as it makes you feel good, it's called.

Execut past experiences

Another way to understand what you like is by examining past experiences. How was the best sex of your life? You come to mind three different memories? What made those experiences so wonderful? Maybe you felt comfortable with your partner, maybe you enjoyed your oral sex. What about the worst sex you've ever had? Why were those experiences so bad? Maybe there was no communication, maybe you got dominated and didn't like it. Experiences are full of information that helps you to understand what you like and what you don't.

Explore Yourself

Almost everyone considers sex to be something you do with someone else, but first you must have a relationship with yourself and your sexuality. Masturb, explore your body. Touch various parts of your body, and find out what a reaction causes. Play with different fantasies and scenarios. This method allows you to test various things without pressure from a partners and you have more time available to examine your reaction.

Be Ready to experiment

If you want to know what you like in bed, you should be ready to experiment with yourself and your partner. You don't know if you like something without trying. Of course, you may have limits that you do not violate, such as no triple or or orgie. Having sexual limitations is healthy. In the meantime, take a close look at acts that you consider limits, but it is neither pleasant. Well, suppose you've ever wanted to try a customs style position, but you have no reason to do it. Imagine it, talk to a partner, and when you are ready, try it.

Focus on Experience

To find out what you like, you need to focus on the experience of the moment. You should be able to discern whether you like something or not. For example, if your partner slaps you in the back, do you like the feeling of his hand or the idea that you're going to “is going to”? It's like advice that doesn't need to be said, but we're really so distracted with sex that we record our reaction. Spend a little more energy, and experience and observe what is happening to you.

Be Open

What you like and what you don't like in bed evolve and change over time depending on personal experiences, relationships, or development. You'll never know your full sexual profile and that's very normal. Sex is fun because it always gives you something to find out.