The treachery of a friend is worse than the end of a love

You don't feel pain and anger thinking about everything you've done for him, and certainly not for a benefit, but because you loved him. Every time you went out with him just to get rid of him because he was having a hard time. All those times he cried on your shoulders, for a dead love.

Every time you ran for it, because it needed it. Every time you made her laugh, or even when you had to tell her unpleasant truths, for her sake. Or when you waited in your home, you borrowed your clothes, perhaps even money. Or when you changed your plans for him, because his boyfriend left him before he went on vacation, and you went with him. And now ask yourself, how can he behave like this? How can he turn his back? How could all that has been between us not be important?

All the Cause of Greed

Yet, that happens. Cause number one: envy. A new love comes, a goal you've achieved and it's not (a job, a home or a child are just a few examples) and that changes the balance between you. She's jealous, feels left out. And that's all it takes to disappear. Well, even if you feel bad, remember that such a friend is better off losing than finding her.

She was never a true friend

Then there are those who are just false friends. Those who speak evil after you, while you have always protected them with a sword, who deceive your boyfriend and then do the victims (“but ours is true love, not an adventure”, say by blinking their eyes, as if this were justified), the ones that criticize your way of life, or that for a new friend, they turn their backs on that historic one.

Those that flee at the moment of need

And finally there are the worst, those who don't know how to be happy with your happiness and who, when you need them, just turn around. They are called sunflower companions - they come from you only when you're okay and everything comes back happy and easy.

They don't want you to cry on their shoulders, really don't want the sadness of others touching. And if a friend sees herself in time of need, these are more vipers than anyone else. True, at times you need to be more afraid of friends than of enemies.