Do not become obsessed with a way of birth, stay open to everything

To do an emergency episittomy and get involved with doctor tools was not my plan at all BirthI had concentrated my thoughts and visions on having a natural birth in water until I could see my lungs opening up breathing, but I stayed open that actually everything could happen and that was out of my control.

The whole idea of writing a birth plan always seemed crazy to me, how can the most unpredictable process be planned?

However, after all that began as my dream birth in the pool, it took three hours to open up and push, then everything became very complicated, and my advice to anyone who has a first birth is to be open to any possibility of life, as long as the child comes to a safe life, and it's not worth anything but your health and child's.

You better get ready for all scenarios and take along the items that you and the baby need after birth.

Intimate pancakes, odorless toilet paper, pain relievers have been among the things that have been of great help to me in the early days after my birth.

Consult everything with doctors and share your experiences with those around you.