Michelle Obama shares seven rules that make her life happy

Michelle Obama's book is officially one of America's best sellers. In this honest and intimate book, Michelle recounts her life story from her early childhood with her family in Chicago until she became the First Lady of the United States. She shares her sad and happy memories, her fears and doubts, the difficulties she faced, and the decisions that helped her to remain strong and successful despite obstacles.

The following are some of the rules and principles this strong woman follows. They are also quite simple for us who want to change our lives for the better: 

Take your failures as opportunities to reach out
In 2016, Michelle Obama participated in an international discussion about the approach of girls to education. In her speech she encouraged young students to support each other and not to fear failure. The only way you can succeed in life and the only way you can learn is failure”, Michelle said.

This idea has also developed in the book, where the former First Lady stressed how important it is to fight fear of failure once it appears. “Failure is a long feeling before it becomes a real result. It is weakness that feeds on self - doubt and then escapes, often deliberately, from fear “.

Never view your challenges as a disadvantage
Michelle Obama is a woman who definitely knows what it means to overcome challenges. The obstacles and prejudice did not destroy this strong woman.

You should never view your challenges as a disadvantage. Rather, it is important for you to realize that your experience in dealing with and overcoming difficulties is actually one of your highest priorities. And I know that because I've seen it myself”, Michelle said in a motivating talk to the students.

Know your values, and do not apologize for who you are
It's sad, but we still live in a world where the size of our bank account, social background, skin color and other physical characteristics often determine our attitude toward each other. Many of us hear judgmental comments about ourselves now and then. Mrs Obama's advice on this is always to tell yourself: This is not about me, this is about the person who says or writes this”.

Learn to Priorize Yourself
Michelle admitted that at a certain stage of her marriage, she became so deep in her husband's life that she was not so interested in her happiness. Everything changed when she realized that she herself was responsible for her happiness.

Set new goals and count your victories 
Throughout her memories, Michelle talks about the goals she has set at different times in life. I've assessed my goals, analyzed my results, and counted my victories. If there was a challenge to protect, I would do it”.

Plan Your Life and Be Responsible for What Happens on It 
Planning is essential. That's the truth that Michelle learned in her family. “Growing up in a working class community and with a disabled parent, I would learn that planning and vigilance are very important”.

Enjoying the Hard Times
Lady Obama knows how important it is to stay upstairs when life becomes difficult. Entertainment and laughter give you the power to overcome any obstacle and to fill with joy those around you.

For the sake of children in particular, you have to find ways to have fun”