A 47-year-old friend: I put cameras in the house and I caught my wife having sex with...

A 47-year-old man has confessed to the “The Sun”, the story of treason, that his wife is making. He showed that after hiding cameras in the house, he saw his wife have sex with another man, followed by the world today. He is in a dilemma if he should end [...]
A 47-year-old man has confessed to the “The Sun”, the story of treason, that his wife is making. He showed that after hiding cameras in the house, he saw his wife have sex with another man, followed by the world today.
He's in a quandary if he should end his 20-year marriage.
Read his full confession:
I caught my wife having sex with another man after I put some secret cameras in our house. I love him, but should he tell me I got him?
She opened her Facebook account six months ago, and this has caused problems since then. I'm 47 years old, and my wife is 43 years old. We've been married for almost 20 years, and we have two kids who left home.
I caught my wife sending private messages to another man the first month he opened his Facebook account. She doesn't know much about technology and leaves her phone open, so it's easy to control.
I wasn't happy with what I had discovered, but I didn't say anything. She talked to her on Facebook, but the other man had met her through her work she works at a supermarket.
In the final message, the man said that he wanted to meet her one night when she adapted to my wife. I work at night, so they agreed that he would come to our house at night when I was out.
I bought some cameras and put one in our bedroom while my wife was at work.
When I saw the movie the next day, I saw my wife get ready for the other man. She removed her tight pants and other wider ears and a short shirt.
He came home and bought wine and chocolate for my wife. The boy was about 30. At first they just sat down and talked, but then they started touching and kissing each other.
Then they went upstairs, lay on the bed and she made him oral sex. I couldn't believe what I was seeing. They kept having passionate sex.
I've watched their movie several times and it makes me feel sick.
They agreed that they would meet again for sex, but I'm not sure because my wife seems to have begun to wipe or hide her messages.
We still have sex, but she insists I use condoms.
I don't know if I'm gonna tell her what I've seen or calm her blood and pretend I haven't seen anything.
Part of me feels that our marriage has ended in 20 years.
The psychologist's response:
Stop watching the footage. It just worries you and doesn't solve anything. Your wife has ruined your faith, but she can never see you again as before, if you tell her you've put cameras in secret.
I know you still have sex, but how loving and passionate is your marriage? Have you found fun ways to enjoy time together? Tell your wife that you feel that you have neglected your marriage and need to work together to renew your relationship.
Like you, she has a lot to lose including her reputation. You must be able to get the other man out of your life.











