23-year-old story: I'm fucked up, I don't stop watching the video where my boyfriend fucks...

I bought a camera and put it in a secret place to spy on my boyfriend and the young girl who came to share the house with us. What I found destroyed me.

So begins a 23-year-old letter to “The Sun”:

My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year, and this girl came to us after our former friend decided a few months ago to go to another house.

My boyfriend and I are 23 years old, and she's 21. From the beginning I suspected that she loved my boyfriend, but I never believed that he could betray me.

I couldn't believe them when I saw them both in bed having sex. Now it's impossible for me to think about something else and keep looking at that record.

The two of them don't know I've heard about their relationship, and I have no idea how to manage the situation.

The psychologist's response:

I don't think things between you and your loved ones were good before this young girl arrived.

I doubt things were really right in your relationship before this young girl came in.

I don't know, but something stops you from dealing with him even though he's cheating on you with another woman.

First, stop looking at that record where they're boyfriend and 21-year-old having sex, because she's ruining herself like that.

Tell your loved ones the truth, and say that you must either regain your faith or separate from it.