Another 15-year-old Albanian confessed: How he was raped and beaten by his boyfriend and friend

Renowned journalist Rudina Djunga has published a message coming to her phone from a 15-year-old victim to the sexual violence of her former boyfriend. After publishing the message, the journalist appeals to all young girls who are victims of violence to talk about it, denouncing their perpetrators not having [...]
After publishing the message, the journalist appeals to all young girls who are victims of violence to speak, denouncing their perpetrators to be ashamed and not to think it is their fault.
She was raped by her boyfriend and a friend of his, who had then hit her in the head of the womb.
They've started reporting on girls in public since the last case of a 14-year-old sexual rape in Kavaja and the terrible case in Drenas, where a minor had been the victim of sexual abuse by professor and teacher.
Rudina Jung message:
A girl wrote me that message!
This was one of the messages I received, among the thousands of teachers, teenagers, parents who wrote to me after the TV show last week.
“Aunt Rudina, I'm sorry to bother you, I'm a victim of sexual violence myself, 15 years old my ex-boyfriend asked me to have sex, and I initially refused, but he insisted that I meet him on a street where we both lived and then to leave a hotel so that no one would see us. I met him and went to the hotel, and when the hotel door opened, I saw a friend in the room, and they pushed me into the room, and they closed my mouth.
I was struck in the belly and head to stop crying and scream. One held me back until the other did his work, and I was not allowed to leave. Finally, they dressed up and left the room, gave some money to the hotel cleaner, and told her to help me get dressed and find the van so that I could go home.
It's been years and I haven't spoken out of fear of what people say. With those two I change every day on the street and they laugh at me, reminding me of every moment I went through. And I know of such cases Shuum. You've had my friends in school who've been cheated by teachers and threatened with relationships. You have to help us with as many shows on these subjects that people like them have little fear and no more..”
What can you tell a child to write this message?
The important thing is to talk, little girls who are shy, who think it's your fault. It's not your fault. He's not a boyfriend, he's a rapist. Denoncoje! They're not all cops like the one who raped the rapant. His colleagues had tears in their eyes when little girls denounced. Talk to your mothers. I don't believe it's all mothers, like those that start out since you're a baby, put a bottle in your mouth, so you don't cry, then a cell phone not to bother them. Talk to your mothers, shake them. Don't let them see soap operas. You are the masterpiece of your mothers. And never believe that love is a prehistoric word gone like dinosaurs.
It's there, and it's waiting for you to decorate your life. Just believe and let no one touch your faith. I'm sure after the Cavaja event many of us spoke to ourselves, children, each other. And it's not a bit.
I start talking. So Kavaya's little girl, you're not alone, there's a lot like you, they're raising their voices behind you. So thank you for its beginning among Albanians, a communications revolution for sex, taboos, violence, arrogance of the powerful, of the wicked.
Because this has to happen. And that doesn't start with parliament's decision, but with social sensitivity. Politics has no business dictates. It's us who dictate politics in such cases. Let it begin!












