Four Situations When biting Your Lips Better

Next time you feel you have to answer to someone, especially when you're angry, remember the words of the famous poet Sufi Rumi: the calmer you become, the more you can hear”

Listening more does not cause any tension, unlike much speech and anger.

Below, you have a list of occasions when you need to remain silent:

If you want to anger the other person

During one argument, silence will help you to listen closely, and you will realize that your conversation partner will eventually get tired of talking.

In a situation where you need to impress someone or talk about something you don't like, give yourself five seconds to gather your thoughts before you comment. For example, if someone is telling you how bad their hair looks today and you agree, it is not necessary to lie.

You can answer that way, how difficult it is to keep your hair looking good when it's hot or cold outside. Showing sensitivity will prevent any possible conflict.

If you were to correct another person's mistake

Even if your only objective is to help, do not correct anyone, especially if you do not know him very well.

If you want to offend someone

You may think no one says something with the intention of insulting him, but this is inaccurate. Without notice, most of us sometimes experience jealousy. It's mostly being sarcastic.

Silence is a strong answer that will make you look better if you are thinking of saying something offensive to someone.

When you talk, you just need to talk.

The first rule of speech is not just to say something. If your words do not contribute to this case, you can save them for another time.

You may face this kind of behavior in school and work. For example: When the meeting is over, a random question may appear. The person who asks the questions after the lesson is over is hated by all. Don't be that person.