16 hours agoWho first says I love you in a relationship? Science explains the importance of the two most antipatic words
Periskopi(7 years ago)
(7 years ago)And the question of who says first “I love you” is so important? Yeah, and that's how it's scientifically explained. Are you in a very good relationship and one of you says I love you”? The two most antipathic words anyone can tell you at first. At least that is how studies can be considered. [...]
And the question of who says first “I love you” is so important? Yeah, and that's how it's scientifically explained.
Are you in a very good relationship and one of you says I love you”? The two most antipathic words anyone can tell you at first. At least that is how studies can be considered. How do you know when it's time to say for the first time “I love you”? Even if you decide, who should say so first?
“Sex and The City”, the favorite real life library, has an interesting episode when Miranda's boyfriend, Dr. Robert Leeds, gives her a surprise with cookies that said “Perhaps he was unable to say these two words aloud, so he also found a truly sweet way to express his feelings, communicates class.
But it's not all as fun as it is at play and in movies. There's some scientific analysis ahead of the “dilemma who should first say I love”? Jenna Birch gives a scientific answer to this part, which is published in Psychology Today.
At first glance, women are more likely to say “I love you” for the first time because they want to test who they're dealing with. First, if the same is not said on the other hand, it will not be easy to repeat. Women are even more skeptical than men and, in turn, they think that men, first they want sex when they say “I want” first.
But there is a shocking truth: a 2011 study conducted by Marissa Harrison, professor of psychology at the University of Pennsylvania, reported that women know how to control emotions: “The names are predisposed to overcome emotions... It's a very natural defense mechanism that gives them time to evaluate exactly the value of partner”, Harrison said.
Do men say “I want” just because they want to get you to bed? Maybe!
Joshua Ackerman, assistant professor of psychology at Michigan University, published a study in 2011. According to this study, it resulted that males who say “I love” before they have had sex, use those words to gain the trust of their partner and cut off time to the intimate relationship. So it is true.
So, if you're ready to say the “I love you”, be sure you feel it. No one will feel cheated.
