What do men want in bed? Consider what they themselves say

Sometimes women don't know how to go to bed, but men help out with some advice. “Cosmopolitan” has asked some men to give advice on women, about sex.

Consider the response of some of them:

- You have as much confidence as you can. When I'm enthralled in your sensuality I don't think about my uncertainties and I can taste it right. You should know when you leave me in control, but sometimes you take control. The dominant balance is very sexy.

When you're above me, it's amazing when you get wild and move fast.

Don't be afraid to tell us what you want: fantasies, acts, positions.

- Kiss me, hold me, touch me. Be more loving.

- Talk to us. It's much better if you tell us what you like and what you don't. If I fake orgasm to make us feel better about our performance it doesn't help anyone.

- Make sure we know you're enjoying it. Even if you don't like swearing, you have to say something because men like to know they're doing a good job.

-Ma jerk off in front of us. It's very exciting to see you enjoying yourself and being forbidden to touch.

- Don't hold your penis too tight with your hand, it's not a test of power.

- Keep eye contact during oral sex. It's the best part, but a lot of women don't.

- You smile at sex. It's exciting to know you're having fun.

-You're louder and more open for different positions.

- Wrap your legs around me and get me close.

- Lead us through oral sex, tell us what you like.

Don't be afraid to be on us. It gets really boring if I'm always in control.

Source Layer: Cosmopolitan