The young woman apologizes to the former age: Thanks to you, I'm a mother today

A painful and emotional story was that of Nerilla in “has a message for you” in “E Albanian Sunday” on Tv Klan.

Nertilla, a young woman, has had to face enormous challenges even at an early age.

She has gone through a difficult divorce, has faced two serious diseases and has come today on the show to apologize to the former year-old, as according to her he is the reason she has a little girl today.

I'm here today to apologize to my daughter's grandfather. I broke up a year ago with my husband, even though it was a story of color, love of many sacrifices, anything that could experience a marriage. The hardest part for me was when my daughter's father went to prison in the Greek state.

There was a time when I realized that nobody was standing next to him. I had just become a mother and engaged in community activities and decided to break free from everything and commit myself to my daughter's father, and I am so happy that I did. Then I learned that I was suffering from two cancerous diseases, in my womb and in my chest.

I'm going to confess a secret today. It's only a few days since my mom heard of my illness, since I had already told his sister” only.

But history is not all. For Nertilla, the pain gets bigger.

And I had to die and this second child in my womb and this death turned me from an idealistic Nertilla to a realistic Nertilla, and I thought I didn't think anyone else should pay, because it was another life.

I thought I'd put aside my treatment and fight for my child's father to gain freedom after being sentenced to many years. He was in prison and in the past before he met me. I faced the underworld.

So I decided to do a lot of things, some right there, just to solve problems and see my daughter and dad. On the one hand, I didn't know what the disease was like, and I watched a grain grow on my skin, and I hid it so my mom wouldn't look at me and see how bad I was”

Asked by Arditi if she was visited, she said she made a visit, but not specialised. After many months, I made several more visits because I was thinking about my daughter's father.

Nertilla: My sister tells Mom she cries every night, and my mom asks me why she's crying?

I tell him I'm not alone with the flu.

The medicine I drank made me sore, and it caused me great turmoil in the womb, especially after the operation. And I was psychologically suffering too much because I was alone.

I should have followed the advice of the one I called this today, which I don't know if he's coming. Five years ago I wanted to get pregnant there was a conflict that I was about to divorce, since I had been in a hospital on my head.

My father doesn't understand divorce either. Then I turned to breast control, and today I'm first stage. The breast cancer is there and I'm going to Italy, after the Catholic Church's helping me. It's a priest who helped many women and girls.

Arditi let us return to your family. Where's the ex-husband?

Nertilla: He's in Tirana.

Arditi: What time did you decide to divorce the man you said no more?

Nertilla: Break up because it's another word you break up and divorce. I've had experiences with women who've been through a lot of major trauma and that had experienced many problems and had helped them.

And I knew a divorce when you just broke up isn't good, blood bursts, problems. A divorce started when you just broke up isn't good. I said, I'm moving to my family, but I'm getting divorced, because it's inevitable.

And I said I'm going to take care of some basic treatments, I had to focus on working hard, and then it happened, and then the operating part. I moved to my family and then on March 24th, I operated. Divorce is difficult, and it is not a wedding, but there is certainly no going back. The reasons for divorce are more than we have to.

Arditi-What's his relationship with his family?

Nertilla: He has a wonderful family, with some very few sisters. I haven't had much communication with his older brother since he lives outside, but we had correct relationships. With my younger brother, Mark, I had very close relationships. He's been risking his life with me because people with pistols could come to our heads and take our money and leave.

Arditi: Today you called your father-in-law, your daughter's grandfather, why did you do this?

Nertilla: I haven't talked to her since before I moved to my family. That's the biggest victory, after the girl I've had in 10 years of marriage.

Arditi: Where is this victory?

Nertilla: He looked at Nertilla, like Nertilla, not like the daughter-in-law of the boy. He looked at Nertilla as his daughters.

Arditi: Don't forget you went to 18.

Nertilla: He lost his mother, the same operation I had on Mars, he lost it at the age of 28. It was the miner and he left the kids alone to raise them very well. And that impressed me.

Every time you mentioned my father-in-law's name, I fought. When my daughter's father was in prison, and people mentioned his name to me, I blew up and I let him because he supported me all the years.

When I promoted books, he woke up from bed and sick woke up from bed and came. The husband has not been in any promotion as his father - in - law always came. He always gave me great courage and strength.

Arditi: You don't talk to your ex-husband?

Nertilla: It's a cold silence.

Arditi: You talked about a cold silence, where did it come from?

Nertilla: As I said five years ago, I wanted to make the same decision to separate from his son. My family all saw me. They had found me crying at Grandpa's grave at 6 in the morning.

There had never been a separation in my family, and I did not want to disappoint anyone. I got my phones and from my grandmother who said they'd lose value if I broke up. Even though they didn't know things.

The call he gave me to give my husband a chance was her father-in-law. I told him I can't and I want to go back to my family. He told me on the phone that I want you to be all right, and that you should be well cut off on whatever you want, but this time, give me a chance for my hat”

All the support he had said to me in all those years, he put me in the corner and I didn't count on any of my family. And the next morning I texted his son and came to Tirana to his business and discussed how to improve our relationship.

Arditi: Where is he?

Nertilla: He's in Troshan. I heard he was in the hospital. I've been thinking a few times about going to the hospital in Sanatorium, but I'm afraid he'd get more sick. I have a daughter because of him today. If it hadn't been him I wouldn't have become a mother today because of the disease.

Arditi: What's the girl's name?

Nertilla: Cheestina, I like to call Tina, but others say Ina.

Arditi: How long has he not seen his father-in-law?

Nertilla: About a year.

Ardit: What would you like to say?

Nertilla: I'm sorry she missed her niece. Second, I'm gonna apologize for adding another concern to him, because it's not easy to separate the boy.

I could even apologize to him in the name of both and him, who have brought another concern to that good man. Second of all, I'd promise that the girl will be sent to him very often, since he's sick. I have a little better now, since there have been times I've been lying there for months.

After Mr. Chairman received the message. Statefen has come to the Albanian Sunday studio.

Nertilla: Dad, how are you?

Content: Better. Where did you leave the girl?

Nertilla: I'll come and get the girl to see you, met her father, met him. I've left it a little bit because it's moving me for treatment. She misses you so much.

Content: I miss you too.

Nertilla: I wanted to know if I could come.

Content: You have your place and you can come anytime.

Nertilla: Dad, I wanted to apologize. We don't know what will happen to us in life, just like you didn't know. If you remember five years ago we made a call asking me for a chance to come back.

I'm sitting here talking to you and we've solved them. I ask words that I've caused many concerns about many things. I didn't apologize to my father.

You're the only person I want to apologize for not getting back. I will never marry again and you were the only family of the girl.

Content: No, Nertilla, talk to me like that, because life has everything.

Nertilla: I have made a promise to God, and I will keep my word. Can I come to the house whenever I want?

Content: Every shower you have the door open to your dad, the boy has his own flaws, I blame the boy. You don't need an apology, we just did duty.

Nertilla: I didn't call you because I didn't mean to upset you.

Content: I've faced many challenges and maybe I've made a mistake. Life has everything. I feel sorry for my daughter because she's my niece, and you don't have sacrifices. I've learned a lot about myself in life. So you don't have to decide to stop getting married.

Nertilla: I wanted to apologize.

You don't have to apologize to me.

Nertilla then met with her former father - in - law and a warm hug between them. Ardit became a surprise to bring the little girl to the studio, who met her grandfather. /tvclean.al/