3 hours agoTen signs that your partner is more than likely to control!
Periskopi(7 years ago)
(7 years ago)1. You are increasingly isolated from friends and family. Of course, each relationship requires a time commitment, and you will surely need to adjust your time. However, if your partner asks you to spend less time with your family or friends, sometimes he turns you against them, you should think about these [...]
Of course, each relationship requires a time commitment, and you will surely need to adjust your time. However, if your partner asks you to spend less time with family or friends, sometimes he turns you against them, you do well to think about these details.
2. You don't have many people you can talk to.
A controlling partner tends to think that he is able to respond to all your needs. If you notice that you no longer call your new best friend for advice, then you may be facing another form of isolation. Be careful.
3. Say sorry all the time.
You find yourself apologizing even if you're sure it's not your fault. This is a sign of an controlling partner, as he tries to have all the power in relationships and, among other things, being critical, manages to address his mistakes in you.
4. Keep your secrets worthless.
You are aware that you are doing nothing wrong if you, for example, have a coffee with a workmate, but such detail is kept secret. It shows fear of judgment and is a sign that he controls you more than he should.
5. It sets “constitution”.
Experts point out that if your partner uses words like “I'll love you more if you paint yellow hair”, or my “I love you more when you're weaker”, it's an alarm bell for your relationship.
6. Partner thinks he's always right.
7. He treats you like they're kids.
Make the difference between rules and restrictions that are a form of protection and those who testify to an extreme desire to control you at every step.
8. He always decides.
Your opinion doesn't matter because “ai knows more about a few things”.
9. You have ZERO privacy.
If you ask about pay, don't worry about it. But if you want to read messages with your friends, check the history of banking, laptop history, and who you've been searching for instagrams, be more careful. All this need for “transparency” is not a good sign.
10. You are criticized for even the most common things.
We all try to criticize ourselves, but how nice it is to hear your partner criticize you for the smaller things? Not at all.
