The 27-year-old knocks: I'm having crazy sex with three colleagues, but my boyfriend...

A 27-year-old woman has confessed to the “The Sun”, her erotic life with men. She said she's currently having sex with three men at work, until she's got a boyfriend she loves.

Below is her full confession:

I'm having sex with three men I met at work, even though I have a boyfriend who loves me.

My friend thinks I have polyamory a sympathy for open sex with more than one person. But I know I wouldn't be happy if my boyfriend was in the same situation as I am. I'm in a real mess.

I'm 27 years old and my boyfriend is 29 years old. We've been together for eight years and he's a good guy, but I've been deceiving him for the last five years.

The number of people I slept with is now added to two-story numbers. Some relationships have once been, and some have lasted for years. I'm not addicted to sex, I do more for the attention and worth of being sexy and wanted.

Some of these guys are friends, and one or two know the truth about me and what I'm doing. I've tried to keep only one extra person, but I find myself flirting with everyone.

Now in my line of work, I'm looking at three people, two of whom work in my department and the other goes into the office once a week.

I'm too strict for pregnancy and I make sure they use protection.

They're all beautiful and I meet them after work for a drink, then we go back to their place for sex. I have especially terrible sex with the guy who comes into the office once a week.

He's 32 and married, but I don't care. He's a passionate lover and he knows how to make me feel good.

Recently, my boyfriend found some texts on my phone, but I told him I was just kidding them.

I've recently started thinking about where life is going. I'm not sure my boyfriend is the one I want to be with.

I'm not sure why I'm cheating on him. I know he wouldn't accept it if he knew what I was doing.

I talked to a therapist once about family issues, but I need help to know how to stop with this torture.

The psychologist's response:

The chances are that your parents do not have a loving and lasting relationship.

It has left you with low self - confidence and you indefinitely want to feel wanted, so it is difficult for your boyfriend to satisfy this chronic need.

You need ongoing therapeutic help to understand what moves you and must rely on the will to make changes.

If you are not sure that your boyfriend is the right partner for you, ask him to have counseling with you in order to decide one way or another.

My e-linen “cannot be faithful” will also help. This is a self-destructive pattern that you need to break, even if you end up dating your boyfriend and seek a new relationship.

In my experience, those who claim to be polyamorous usually have a background like yours. It results from emotional harm and is not really a choice made by free will.