Albanian writer Habit: I have husband and lover.

The Albanian Mufti, writer and artist, has celebrated 25 years of marriage to her Swiss husband. But that's not news because Besa said something that left everyone out. She has acknowledged that she has an open relationship with her husband. She says that from time to time [...]
But that's not news because Besa said something that left everyone out. She has acknowledged that she has an open relationship with her husband. She says that from time to time they fall in love with others, but they are together again and are happy or sad about each other's stories. My husband and I can have our life, live in different cities.
After 20 years things change. We're like friends, so it's okay if any of us fall in love with someone else. Rather, we rejoice in the other person. I continue to love him, but love changes; it's another kind, we've been in love for 15 years. The first to know when he's in love with someone else is me and Elin.
I'm the first, who else will he say? He's been having a relationship every now and then, and I'm as upset as he was when he broke up. When you love someone else, you want him to be well, to whomever he wishes, and to whomever he wishes. We're all happy in his town.
Why would I break up with law? What did he do to me? We need and stay like brother and sister. In practical terms, this is what happens to all couples in Albania, but they don't say”, -- she said in an interview for Living.













