17 hours agoI betrayed my wife, but I suffered badly. I can't have any more relationships after this”
Periskopi(9 years ago)
(9 years ago)A letter reached in the series of “The Sun” tells the story of a man who abandoned his wife and two children to live with his girlfriend at work. But soon things would change in his life and he'd get hit hard... Paper [...]
A letter reached in the series of “The Sun” tells the story of a man who abandoned his wife and two children to live with his girlfriend at work. But soon things would change in his life and he'd get hit hard...
The Man's Letter
Hello, Deedre psychologist.
I am 33 years old today and divorced. A few years ago, I married my ex-wife I loved, and together we have two wonderful boys. But it didn't take long when I met an attractive girl at work and not only betrayed my wife with her, but I fell in love with her. I got so far that I decided to break up and live with my girlfriend. She told me that she too would break up with her husband because she was also married, but a few months after we started living together, she changed her mind and left me turning to her husband.
This destroyed me because I really loved him.
It's been a year since I was separated, and things in my life have been good for me. I have a new home, a better job and a great boyfriend. She's very good and has a perfect body. But I have a big problem with it... even though it's great, sex with it lasts very little. She mentioned this to me several times, but I can't have sex with her. It's over as soon as I can, because my mind is on my ex-girlfriend.
I don't know how to fix this, I'm afraid the libido fell to me... ”
The Psychologist's Answer
The sequence of events has been intense, and it seems that your despair and frustration is great. Maybe knowing the current girlfriend happened very soon, as you still have a crush on your ex-girlfriend. Give yourself some time to realize that the story with him is closed and you need a new start”.
