20 hours agoSex boundaries: These are the ways you tell your partner you're not into bed.
Periskopi(6 months ago)
(6 months ago)Personal boundaries are important in every aspect of life, but especially in sexual matters. Setting limits helps you to feel secure, comfortable, and respected, making the experience more enjoyable for both partners. Communication is the key, and often it takes a little courage to say what you really feel. More [...]
Below are some simple, direct ways to set your boundaries in various situations:
When Position Is uncomfortable
Yeah, it's totally okay to say this: ” This position is not making me feel good. Can we try another one?
When your partner wants to experiment with something you don't agree with
These expressions are clear and soft:
I'm not thinking of experimenting with...”
I'm not feeling very comfortable with...”
# When you're just not in the mood #
The desire for privacy differs from day to day: “I'm not in the mood for sex. Can we just sit around watching a movie?
When your partner does something that hurts, causes pain, or does it without your consent
Here you need stronger words: Not without discussion! ”
When he claims he doesn't have a condom for his big penis
No reason is worth safe sex: ”
