How do you know your partner is thinking about someone else?

Thinking about someone other than your partner is more common than you think.

According to a survey conducted by Superdug Online Doctor, about 67 percent of men believe that their partner may have sexual fantasies for other people, while 74 percent of women do.

However, the fact that you sometimes think of someone else during the relationship does not mean that your relationship is doomed to completion. In fact, 4 out of 5 people who admit to fantasy value themselves as satisfied or very satisfied with their partner.

But according to the study, the most pleased resulted in those who did not fan at all, 60% of them said they were highly satisfied “”, compared to only 35.4% of those who admitted they thought about others.

Honestly, few people would like the idea of a partner thinking of someone else in intimacy...
According to sexologist Julia Stein, there are six signs that a partner might have a mind elsewhere during relationships:

1. Avoiding Eye contact

Stein calls eye contact “one of the strongest ways to be present with partner”.
If he or she constantly avoids sight or keeps her eyes closed, it may be an indication that you are imagining one scenario or another.
If this is especially so in the most intimate moments, it is even more significant.

2. Emotional Remote

When emotional warmth disappears, it is often a sign that thoughts are elsewhere.
After the act, you may notice that your partner does not demand an perfectionist, does not embrace, does not speak quickly.

3. Strange Requests

If your partner suddenly wants to try something specific without further discussion, it can be a way to experience a fantasy with someone else.
New explorations are wholesome when they occur with communication and understanding, but when called for with haste or persistence, they may indicate that something else is going through their minds.

4. Energy Change in Room

When sexual energy often changes, once cold, once too hot a time it may indicate that the partner is trying to compensate for something.
Some people become more aggressive or distant to separate the physical action from the emotional attachment - to play a fantasy, not to connect with you.

5. Bring “to”

If your partner seems to be following a imagined scenario instead of responding naturally to you, he is likely imagining someone else.
It's like playing a scene on his head, not living with you,” says Stein.

6. Hurry to Close Soon

A “quickie” is normal sometimes, but if every time it happens, it's a red flag.
A person who is really present wants to enjoy the moment, not to finish it as soon as possible. /Print By Liberty Spahiu