Is it normal to hate oral sex?

So, of course, it's normal to hate oral sex. It's also normal to like having oral sex. And it's normal not to take special care of him, but to do it because your partner loves him. The same is true of the obsession with oral sex.

Sex is such a varied human experience that normal “” means nothing. You can find someone at any point in the spectrum, from absolute hatred to absolute love with almost any sexual act.

But most of the questions people ask are: “Is that normal?” What are you really asking when you ask if it's normal to hate oral sex? Are you asking permission not to? You looking to win a debate with a partner or a friend? Are you concerned that you are unusual, strange, or confused?

When people ask if something is <x0-> abnormal, they usually ask if there's anything normal about it. You can absolutely get an answer, maybe with the help of a therapist.

If there is a deeper trauma that fuels your aversion to oral sex and is preventing you from living your best sex life, then it is worth working on and moving on. But whether you have external support or not, you always have the right to do no sexual act that you hate.

It shouldn't be that deep. Maybe you don't like how oral sex feels. If so, you are not obliged to do so.

You have the right to tell your partner that you're just not good at oral sex and you don't want to do it. They are also fully within their rights to decide whether this works for them or not.

In conclusion: Yeah, it's normal to hate oral sex with your partner. If you think there's a deeper problem and you want to treat it, find yourself a sex therapist. And if you don't? You're totally fine, just like you are. /Telegraphy/