3 hours agoWhen a mother cares too much for her child: This is not love, it's a problem
Periskopi(3 years ago)
(3 years ago)Are you a parent who does all homework with his child instead of solving problems at school and problems with friends and controlling every step of it? Such parental care is harmful both to parents and to children. Parents are un-stop worried and loaded with [...]
Such parental care is harmful both to parents and to children.
Parents are un-stop distressed and burdened with the desire to protect their child from everything.
Serious research says that this parenting style is harmful to children because we send the message that we don't trust them, that we don't trust them enough to do something good themselves, so that's why one of the parents should always intervene.
On the other hand, it is not good because children should be taught from infancy with a type of discontent as an integral part of life, the Telegraph broadcast.
A parent's love for the child and his concern cannot be understood by the one who did not feel and experience it. However, experts say there is the limit between care and excessive concern.
The parent should be involved in his child's life, he should be interested in what happens to him, but the child must also be prepared for himself and that it is normal to make mistakes, which is normal that discontent exists and that he cannot get everything ready.
As for everything in life, the most difficult is finding balance, but balance is needed for optimism between parental control and care and what is called a committed and healthy parent.
If you are not sure where the border is and how to find balance, do not hesitate and seek the help of your teacher or psychologist so that your child can allow normal growth, development, and independence.
