That's why you have to wait for the age of 30 to get married

A marriage psychologist, Ashley Paige, gives some interesting reasons why you should get married after you touch 30.

Recently, I've seen all the reports, the photos of many young people who appear in my Facebook account, while taking the oath until death divides us, and I've been in doubt. What's the rush? I think even if you're convinced that you've found a soul mate, it doesn't provide a certificate of marriage or even connect you to death. Of course, there are also circumstances when marriage is what gives meaning to everything, but for most people who have a purpose to get to life, I think the best way is to wait until they can build security in life, for themselves, but also for their mate, to gain tranquillity and discretion in their lives. Some are ahead of schedule; others do not reveal that kind of security even when they have touched their 30s. There are some things that aren't repeated in the most important decade of life, that between the '30s, but even talking to many of my friends, marriage in my 30s has certain advantages and good things to say:

1. If you're the 30th, you're out enough, so you know what you want from a partner and what you don't want. If you meet someone, you can readily see that he is the right person or not.

2. Your wedding may have more friends than your parents ' friends.

3. You've grown up enough and you don't feel like you're missing something.

4. You may have a weekend relaxed all about yourself in the spa (when everyone else is rushing to bed after a hard day with the children or because he's pregnant) because no one is accompanying you and does not share your interests.

5. People live longer now (a scienceist) so when you get married late, you allow yourself to be a longer, healthy, unspoiled relationship.

6. You've had enough time to tell you who you are and what you care about as an adult, and who's your mate who's fit and deserves to be with you. But the person in question has the same purpose.

7. After holidays and social life in the early 20s, you value more peaceful nights and married life.

8. You're more successful in your career, even because of many years of security, so you can pay for everything that is related to you at your wedding without relying on your mom or dad.

9. Sexually, you're safe and you know what you want.

10. You've seen all the mistakes your friends made over the years (even in the ladies' dress. Seriously?

11. If you will choose a special location for the wedding ceremony, 30-year-old friends, of course they are very willing to come.

Twelve. At this time of life, you know more types of kitchens and recipes, so that the wedding menu can add a variety of foods.

13. You've had more time to travel.

14. When you marry in your 30s, you feel more secure and independent, and you create a more open communication with your partner, because you don't have to support each other in the social circle, you've already developed independence.

15. You know who you are, so you don't have to pretend to do something you like when you really don't like it. You're pretty comfortable with who you are and what you want from your partner.

16. Above all, it is best to wait until you have fully discovered yourself.