The biggest partner complaint when it comes to sex!

One of the most frequent sexual complaints couples report is the woman's unwillingness. There is a diagnosis of this: The Hippoactive Sexshire Disorder or H The DSD ) and pharmaceutical companies have worked hard to develop pharmaceutical treatments.

However, according to many experts, physical factors can be only part of the problem.

For many couples, the noncompatible “expression” and often, the lowest sexual partner is also the husband.

Differences Between Men and Women

Because of cultural expectations, it is much easier for a woman to accept a lack of sexual desire than a man. But in our highly sexualized culture, low desire is a problem for both men and women, regardless of their relationship status.

In some cases, low desire masks another basic physical problem. For women, it may be painful relationships or hip muscle spasms or a hormone imbalance produced by an oral contraceptive or other pharmaceutical agent. For males, it can also be a hormonal imbalance, or it can be a way of avoiding the treatment of correct malfunction. For both of them, there are also psychological issues after lack of desire, ranging from the history of sexual abuse to inadequate or harmful education on sexuality. Before deciding what kind of help is needed, it is important to identify with accuracy the source of the challenge.

Disorders or Differences?

Sometimes, though, there is no disorder or dysfunction in itself. Sometimes there's only one difference. In these two couples, which partner would you label with H DS? One couple say that one is not interested in having sex, and the other would want to have a sexual relationship every week or two. Another couple may say that one wants to have sex each day, and the other wants to have sex only a few times a week. In the experiences of sexologists, it is often noted that very few couples are precisely compatible with sexual desire. Thus, almost every couple must face some level of incompatible desire. It's part of the negotiating relationship.

When individuals enter into new, relevant commitments, they usually negotiate many aspects in the way they will connect their lives. They decide where to live, what budgets they're working on, who cooks, what food, what food they have, and if they do, where they're going to spend vacations, what kind of family traditions they're going to create, etc. But sex just happens. There is often an assumption that there is nothing to negotiate.

We're familiar with the “relations require work”, and we need to know that even sex requires work. Incompatibility is common because after all, you are two different individuals. This is where open communication comes in, a consult with the therapist and the desire you have to make the connection work!