Why do people repent after divorce?

I was divorced and remarried, but if I could start my life over I wouldn't break up. I love the woman I have now and the children I have with her, but despite all the problems my first marriage had, divorce is not worth the pain and suffering my daughter has caused. ”

2.

I betrayed him. I knew that the end would come, and I needed to punish myself. He was trying to make it work, but the damage was done and I had to move forward to find my happiness. I later discovered that my betrayal was due to the depressive situation in which I was in, and it was a move to show myself “that something is happening”. I deserve everything that happened, but I regret 100%. Even though he forgave me, I wouldn't forgive myself. ”

3.

I thought it was working and I didn't want it anymore. Now that I see it in retrospect, I realize it was different. Both of us suffered from mental - health problems, and after divorce I realized that I still loved him. After the treatment we received, she returned to the woman with whom I fell in love once, and although experienced again, the relationship was no longer the first one. We couldn't be together. We still love each other, but we don't want to spoil this magic report we've been connecting together again. I'll always be grateful for it. ”

4.

It was me who started a divorce because I was unhappy. She was turned into a man I never knew anymore and I was too. We fought regularly. I spent more time outside my home and felt better. It's been 18 months since I left and I miss each day. I don't know if I'm sorry, but I wish I had tried harder. He was a good man, but I didn't want to spend all my time being unhappy and, most of all, I didn't want him to be unhappy. ”

5.

After the divorce I ended up with nothing. I had no credit card, no higher education, and I had been away for 20 years. I wanted to go back with him so much! ”

6.

My abusive father comes every day sorry for 10 years and wants Mom back. She's very happy with her life now, and my father is hopeless and obsessed with my mother. ”

7.

I totally regret it. I don't talk to my ex. I don't know how he feels. I'm afraid to take a step because I don't want to be rejected. If it didn't work then, why would it work now? That leaves me insist. We were both young and growing up. ”

8.

I was unhappy and blamed him. I should have stayed in touch and worked harder. I've been out with other people, but I'm increasingly aware of how much I was going through with my ex. ”

9.

I feel my husband is starting to repent. I would never have wanted a divorce if it was for me, but there's a lot of things between us. I wish we were together, but I can't. ”

10.

I hate being divorced, but it was me who asked for it. He had a love relationship with an employee, and I still wanted to make the connection work. I did all this because I really started to hate him. I felt betrayed, abused, mentally destroyed. I wouldn't want to be divorced, but I didn't have a choice. ”