You're in love with a married man?

If you're in love with a married man, you're probably experiencing a lot of conflicting emotions right now.

Often, being in love does not mean being happy. You may have good moments in your relationship, but soon you return to reality, and remember that, after all, he's married.

You just found yourself in this situation, and now you don't know what to do?

Of course, no relationship between two persons is ever the same as any other.

The relationship you have with this man and his relationship with his wife are both unique and it is difficult for anyone to understand from an outside glance, so it is difficult to give genetic advice in situations like these.

But there are some difficult truths that you may need to listen to regardless of your circumstances.

• You have to make sure before you really believe him.

If a man in a monogamous marriage has a relationship, he therefore has to lie all the time, so he is undoubtedly capable of deception.

If he ever left his wife for you, there's no guarantee he'll do the same to you in a few years.

• You may not be alone

If he seems to have no real intention of leaving his wife for you, remember that you are probably not his only connection, extramarital. Although this would involve some serious organizational abilities on his part.

No matter how special you feel or how much you love this young man, you can never really know if you are just one in a long line.

• You shouldn't be sitting here waiting.

Think about your relationship with this man until now. Your time spends waiting. You're expecting his messages, you're waiting in a secret place, you're waiting until he lies to his wife, and many other expectations.

You're cutting your time waiting for him to call when you might be living.

• You are not his priority

No matter how hard he can try to convince you otherwise, if you're the other woman, you're not the number one on his list of priorities. His wife is, and, if he has children, they are.

• The way he talks about his wife can tell you a lot.

Is he respectful in talking about his wife? If not, how can you believe that he really respects you?

• He probably won't leave his wife

Very few married men actually end up leaving their wives for girlfriends, and the chances are that you're not the exception to the rule.

Divorce is a very big issue, and there are many things that will keep it in a marriage, no matter how unhappy they claim to be in it.

• You enjoy his “fix”

That may be difficult to accept before yourself, but dangerous relationships are considered very sexy.

• If there are children involved, you're playing with fire

If the married man you're in love with has children with his wife, you've got yourself in a very complex situation.

If he were to leave his wife for you, it would seriously affect his relationship with his children.

If they know their father left their mother for you, they're unlikely to get along with you, which would create some serious threshold between you and him.