That's why men get more hurt than women get separated

Divisions can truly break the hearts of women. But a group of brilliant minds recently learned that men could be more destroyed than their female partners after the breakup. Men are also more emotional when it comes to discussing their heart pains (yes, they talk about it too). These intriguing findings are all part of a study of relationships conducted by psychologists.

These findings aroused our curiosity, so we decided to take a look at the report and share its most interesting points with you.

Males are more likely to seek help for internet relations

For collecting their data, scientists reviewed the posts of over 184 thousand people in Reddit (a massive internet discussion forum).

Their findings revealed that about 55% of users who sought help for their love problems were males, while only about 45% were women.

The results also found that <x0-day heart change” was the most common topic in postings. Other topics, such as time, personal qualities, trust issues and privacy, were also discussed at the forum.

Researchers believe that anonymity on the platform helped men to express their emotions freely

The old mask's stereotype or the idea that <x0 guys don't cry” has somehow affected the way guys deal with their feelings.

As one Reddi user put it at another forum, “Days should not express sadness or worry, so we usually keep it to ourselves because it should. None of our friends want to hear how bad it is and we would like to have done things differently, etc.

The team said anonymous “, appropriate and widely accessible” of Reddit allowed the gentlemen (who were mostly young) to strip off their souls.

On the other hand, females are more likely to seek help face - to - face or to go to therapy.

Males were more emotional about their heart pain than women

This could be surprising, but based on the team's scientific record, the boys discussed topics covering heart pain, meetings, celebrations and personal qualities.

Meanwhile, the ladies spoke more about their concerns about mistreatment, finance, distance, and household chores.

Charlotte Entwistle, the lead author of the study, said: “The fact that the heart pain was more often discussed by men, points out how men are at least as emotionally affected by relationships as women”.

Researchers also noted that most boys sought support while the problem was still in the early phase. The girls, on the other hand, were privileged to seek help when the crisis was already severe.

Males seemed more secure in their relations than women

The language used by each gender also revealed certain models. Women reportedly used more self - centered languages (word “I”) and had more negative emotions in their posts. This led them to believe that the ladies were mainly in the state of the preoccupied relationship a style of relationships characterized by suspicion in itself, which usually results in uncertainty and anxiety.

By contrast, men used the most name “ne”, along with words of belonging and positive emotions. Signs that were in harmony with a secure bond, which includes faith and positive feelings about the relationship.

It is also important to note, however, that users who identified themselves with the state of contemptuous connection or those who do not value relationships were mainly men.

Researchers hope that these findings will correct some negative stigmas for men

Chief scholar Dr. Ryan Boyd, believes the study challenged common ideas about gender differences when it comes to heterosexual relations. He declared: “When you remove traditional social stigmas towards men for seeking help and sharing their emotions... they seem as much invested to work in tough armaments in their relations as women”