Signs showing that you are the problem

1.

You never admit guilt. Because you would always throw your relationship problems at him.

2.

You're the one that “don't seriously say” things. Words spoken at times of nerves really can't get behind.

3.

The connection works “either my way or you take your stuff and go!” In this way, your partner feels that his ideas and decisions don't matter.

4.

You depend on your relationship. If you only depend on your relationship to feel good about yourself, then there are other problems within you that need to be addressed.

5.

You manipulate your partner by condemning him. If after a fight you just don't talk to him or if you don't have sex on the condition that he does something else, then you're trying to manipulate him. Even with children, such things no longer produce the expected effect.

6.

You hit “involuntarily” in the fight. A small slap, and literal violence is separated only by a thin thread, so such behavior is unacceptable. According to experts, such behavior during fights points to an inability to express feelings well. So it would be better to withdraw temporarily from the relationship and seek help from a psychologist.

Source Layer: Bustle