I'm risking losing my girlfriend because of pornography and...”

I met a great woman, but I can't stop using a sex line on the phone.

I am 36 years old and single so far.

For a few years I've been watching pornography, but now I'm in a harder place to tell exactly how to please myself.

I realized that I increasingly enjoy being up - to - date and sexually ridiculed.

I discovered this sex line on the phone a year ago, and after talking to some girls, I found one that's amazing.

She knows how to make me give up on her.

She likes to laugh at how pathetic I am. I love her.

But a year ago I met an online woman who is 34 years old and very hot.

We talked for a while and I told her I was liking her.

But I was surprised she said she felt the same way.

She lives in America and I will travel to visit her this spring.

I've decided I'm going to leave both the pronograph and the sex line on the phone.

I don't want to use anybody while they're in a relationship.

Pornography makes me feel like something is possible, but I can't imagine my life without sex on the phone.

I've been able to give up for a week or two, but I'm back.

I never feel guilty for the calls and what I do, but then I broke my promise to myself and I'm beginning to realize that I've become addicted.

I'm having a hard time getting to a peak, without being shut down.

If I stopped would I return to normal?

I love this woman from America and I'm worried that this will affect us and if I don't stop or she finds out, I'll be done.

Other times, I think I should enjoy what I'm doing and start with a relationship.

Psychologist answers: That's your addiction talking.

The fact that you are having a hard time getting sexual satisfaction without being humiliated indicates that phone sex is finding your answer.

Looks like a junkie needs bigger doses to reach the same levels.

If you continue to have sex on the phone, you may even lose your ability to revive from a partner in real life.

So if you want a satisfying relationship, start treating your addiction now and try to stop your sex habits and pronography.