Erotic story: My partner betrays me, but if I leave him...

What hurts most is that cheating is not just about sex. He had days out at hotels and evenings at the theatre. He told me he felt bad, but faith has lost.

I'm 36 years old and I had bad luck with men. I have two dear boys, seven and 12 years. They don't have the same father, but their two fathers were players and they let me take care of their children.

I thought I'd have luck with this man who looked so good, spoke sweet who told me he'd fall in love with me since the first meeting.

I waited two months to meet my two sons, but when they finally met, they liked it.

He's 39 years old and you were married before. I knew that she was a former mate, and I thought that this understood how good he is. But a friend who knew his former wife told me that they were not just friends but slept together for about two years.

He denies that, of course, and vowed to be just good friends. I was afraid you were lying, but I tried to trust him.

Both my boys loved him and that was important to me, since they don't belong to their real fathers. So I said he could stay.

But I know a fact he's cheating on me again, this time with a woman he met at a conference at his job as a salesman. It hurts me more and I don't know what to do.

I feel like I hate him and I know I can't believe him again. But I don't want to be alone and hurt my boys again. He says he'll do anything and insists he knows how stupid he was to betray me.

If the same thing happened to a friend, I'd tell him to get rid of this traitor and not look back. I'm a woman who looks beautiful, with a house and a job, but I feel frozen and broken.

Psychologist answers: You've been unfortunate with men. Either you've just picked one that speaks sweet, a quick decision.

You're again with a traitor and it hurts you, but you can close your eyes for the sake of your sons. But now you're bored and your boys should be too. But I'm afraid your partner is unlikely to change, you'll feel more upset if he stays.