Coronavirus, How to Live in Remote Love

The isolation of this period has divided many couples - some advice to control the situation and, perhaps, to take advantage of it.

Our boyfriend or our partner lives a few miles from our home, but the provisions of the decree #they've stayed home and put us in the same conditions as couples living thousands of miles away: we <x0] look” each other only by phone, there's no physical contact, we have to cope with it without it. But neither partners that everyone lives alone, even far away, do so usually with free choices and can arrange meetings. At the time of the choreography it's not possible and we don't know how long this situation will last. We'd probably get out and everything's gonna be fine, but pain and anxiety over the absence of our heart person are undeniable. However, we can and should react to all of this.

We are responsible for the hypothesis of quarantine violations, even for a meeting in the park as we pretend to run, should not be taken into consideration. In this case, contracting an infection should take priority over everything, including the heart.

Why do we suffer so much from an unprecedented situation in which common good surpasses our personal needs. A separation is always a separation, no matter how far away it is - sadness is inevitable, even if there are couples who suffer less and others who suffer more.

Positive areas is not a matter of seeing a glass half filled at any cost, but of considering the situation realistically. A stable couple have all the means needed to cope with a period of forced loneliness. In fact, it can take advantage of this situation: Not seeing each other over and over again strengthens each partner's self-perception, sharpens imagination in the invention of new ways to keep the relationship alive from a distance, improves consciousness. Moreover, staying away for a time can teach us to overlook our partner's shortcomings by focusing attention on his best side. Then your desire makes you more aware of your relationship.

Bristity is unnecessary to deny, it has such feelings. The state of anxiety, the feeling of loss “without a partner, the feeling of being able to cope with everyday life without him or her, are true things that we suddenly become aware of. The forced isolation of these days can be experienced as a “rification” of autonomy that in these days will surely make us suffer, but from which we will come up with the awareness that we did it and that, after all, everything went really well. A good shot for our self-esteem.

We reassemble our reports to manage the days of distance better, let's pay each other calls or video calls, and to reproduce practically some of the moments we care about: from the aperivity (to consume with lots of fries and olives in the corresponding halls before) to videorooms, why not, at the couple's fitne hearing, to share with the same training application and by sharing results.

Do not give in to disappointment. This separation is imposed on the outside, and therefore it may be harder to accept. Let us, then, fight the feeling of anger and frustration that we might become victims of, but let us not be ashamed of our negative moods - it is no one's fault, the less our own or our partner's. May we use all our energy to control our anxiety, perhaps considering the advice the World Health Organization has given to help us cope with this situation.