Don't you want to have children? That's the psychological explanation.

Women who do not want children are generally exposed to prejudice. Others speculate that they cannot find a suitable mate, that they are not capable of forming stable relationships, they want to escape from responsibilities, they are selfish and want to live free and independent... or they just can't keep children.

Speaking of this psychoanalyst phenomenon and clinical psychology professor at Bologna University, Roberto Pan says that women who don't want children are too, because according to him, the “some don't confess to themselves, most want it, but don't say it out loud. Even if they have their best friend in front of them. Moreover, Italy's birth decline is clear. Although it must be specified that can be caused by anatomic, biological and socioeconomic problems. ”

Deep Reasons

According to psychologist, females who do not want to have children are raised by very protective mothers and often become annoying. Their mothers always expect perfection from their daughters, offering them a strong sense of duty.

Then they start asking themselves questions:

- What if being a mother is too difficult for me...?

- Your mother's work is too heavy and irreversible (you can't be the same again)

After refusing to have children there are hidden motives of another kind the mother-daughter relationship has faced before. This is related to the transformation of the body that will cut off the fetus.

This is part that cannot be mentioned, but often the body will not be the same scares many new mothers. Especially those who aspire to aesthetic perfection”, the psychologist says.

They are also afraid of possible diseases that may appear in the parent and fetus.

For all the reasons mentioned above, they believe that for women who do not want to have children this is normal in the civil age and is part of the free choice zone.

The innovation is that, knowingly or not, there are an increasing number of women without children, who not only don't feel the “deprived of their nature”, but actually live their fullness as women and represent a new model of female identity, who decide for their lives and their choices, as possible examples of femininity for other women.