7 Things a Female First Notices in a Male

1. Your shoes.

Why it matters: If the eyes are windows to the soul, the shoes are your style window. Wear the wrong ones, and you'll deliver a message less than ideal. If they're easy,  She'll suspect you're type “free”. If they're outdated, she'll think you don't care about your looks (and wonder what else you don't care about).

What do you do: Consider shoes an investment. Spend as much as you can for some goods, wear shoes in both colors, blacks and coffees, as well as the most sporting clothing. And make sure your shoes are suitable for dress that means you shouldn't wear sneakers or sandals in your suit.

2. Your greeting.

Why it matters: Why do you think it's such a nervous situation when the first racers leave the limo at the Bachelor “? And guys, don't pretend you haven't seen this show at least once. It's because they have only a few words and gestures to make a good first impression. A greeting is the first opportunity to introduce yourself in the way you want to see it. Handshake, smile and “

What do you do: Be confident but friendly. Don't look past, or up and down the head of the woman before you see the face. Of course, making eye contact with nervousness is not very appealing. Look into your eyes, smile warmly, and repeat the name (to help you remember it). And never underestimate the power of a handshake.

3. Your hands.

Why it matters: Since we are already discussing the handshakes, let us discuss the condition of your skin. I know that “agration” is probably not on your daily list “to make”. But tough hands are not something that ladies want to notice. Nobody wants to touch their scales. Even if you think the hydrate isn't your <x4-source”, it's in your best interest to keep your skin soft.

What do you do: Keep a hand cream on your desk at work and use it when thinking about your fantasy football formation or trying to decide what to eat for lunch.

4. Your Look

Why it matters: There are, of course, fashion guys know things they shouldn't do. For example, go to a meeting with the t-shirt that reads “I'm stupid”. Or go to a business meeting with a T-shirt as a flag. But it is usually the smallest things that can help you to get a first impression. An unbroken shirt of pants that are not ironed well with mud shoes colored with green grass.

What do you do: Do a complete scan in the mirror before you leave your home. Do you look okay? Regular? Is the hair brushed? Shoes tied? Does the belt go with the shoes? A glimpse will save you from minor mistakes in a first impression.

5. Your hour

Why it matters: Women do not expect every man to wear Rolex, but they expect you to keep an hour of men not children. Not with Mickey Mouse face. No time as a calculator. And nothing of rubber if you're not going to the marathon.

What do you do: If it is time to take an hour, visit the city store to see what you like. You can't be mistaken if you take one with a metal belt and a black field, or classic white-field leather belt. Not that it sounds like much, but not an hour since it looks like you kept it at the carnival.

6. Your grammar

Why it matters: Even in the first exchange of greetings, ladies have judgments. They notice whether you use big words or not, if you say <x0hmm”, you call “goce” or beloved “”, and if your vocabulary is filled with dirty words.

What do you do: You read more books? No 10-dollar words are required in every sentence, but women want to feel safe that you can talk properly if they introduce you to their friends or family, without fear of embarrassing them.

7. Your hair.

Why it matters: The way you keep your hair says a lot about you. A comb where you try to cover a piece without hair makes you look insecure. Faty looks like you haven't washed them in days.

What do you do: Women have different opinions about the right length of their hair, but that's subjective. More serious is style. Or if they have a style. If you keep long hair, make sure they're under control when you get out the door. If you're falling, just shave your head without shame.