On my date with my girlfriend's parents, I realized that I had sex with her father once
(7 years ago)She's everything to me and I wanted to propose marriage but now, her father is asking me to end his relationship with her. Five years ago, I was bisexual and slept with more people. Anyone who stood before me, including men. This changed when I fell in love with [the] girlfriend.
Five years ago, I was bisexual and slept with more people. Anyone who stood before me, including men. That changed when I fell in love with my new girlfriend, who is everything to me. Finally, I met her parents, and at lunchtime, I realized that I had slept with her father. I wanted to propose, but when her girlfriend and mother left the table, her father, whom I had sex with told her to end my relationship with his daughter. I'm in love. Should I ignore her father, or tell her girlfriend?
Pamela Stephensen Connolly's response: I'm not sure you'll have a comfortable future with your new partner. The story of truth means causing disaster: separation with girlfriends, plus the risk of damage to reports between the daughter and father, and between father and wife. Hideting the truth would lead to maintaining a toxic secret that would be just as destructive at the moment of making public. But if the whole family was so open to you, you're likely to be part of it. But her father, your ex-boyfriend, made it clear that you're not welcome in the family. Go away better, and avoid the massive pain your partner, her family, and you would suffer.