Marry or not get married?

On January 2, 1839, he writes Emma Wedgwood the following.

I can't express how much I enjoyed my visit to Maer, because I felt the tranquillity of my future life. How I hope you'll be as happy as I do! I'm scared every time I think of what kind of family you were. I was thinking this morning about how I, such a speech addict and rarely in a bad mood, supported my notion of happiness, tranquillity and loneliness.

But I think the explanation is very simple. During the five years of my journey (and, I can add, even here, the last two, that by the active way they lived, it can be said that they are the beginning of my real life, all my joy flowed from what was going on in my mind, as I admired the sights of traveling through the wilderness, or glorious forests.

I apologize for so much selfishness! I'm telling you, because I think you're going to give me more human form and you're going to teach me that there's greater happiness than the creation of theories and the gathering of facts in silence and only”.

Charels Darwin argued that to tear the species of life are of common origin and proposed the scientific theory that evolution is a process. When he returned home in 1836 from his five - year journey around the world, which included his trip to the Galapagos Islands, he had already begun to see life and creation in a new way. And as he complimented Emma WedgWood, his cousin, he decided to marry him.

Charles slipped scattered thoughts on career and perspective into two pieces of paper, one with a “to get married” and one titled “not to marry”. The advantages included “continued association and a friend of old age..., however, better than the dog”, despite points like “less money for books” and “terrible waste of time”.

They were married on January 29, 1839. Charles and Emma had 10 children together. Three of the children died. The death of their daughter, Annie, surely caused a wound to their hearts. That loss could have divided forever.

But the loss strengthened Emma's faith, and on the other hand, she shut the door of faith in Yahweh for Charles. Yet, they fought for their marriage. The day Annie died, Emma wrote to Charles: “You must remember that you are my main treasure (and you've always been)”

Charles and Emma lived married for 43 years. Emma, who had never been interested in science before, this time joined her husband. Eventually, each of them accepted, and he evidently understood what the other believed. Charels Darwin died on April 19, 1882, and was buried in Westminster, near Isaac Newton. /Day/