Your wife: My husband betrayed me, now I have sex with three married men, but...

Girl psychologist,

On one break I realized how I miss sex since my divorce. Now I'm going to bed with three married men. Should I feel guilty?

I'm 52 years old, and I got divorced five years ago after my husband betrayed me.

I met a wonderful man at a party and realized how much I miss sex.

I've recently felt that I've spent enough time alone, so I think I want to enjoy life again. I booked a place at a party in Italy and had a great time.

I met this man from the United States at our coastal hotel. We talked and met for dinner several times.

He was also divorced and just a little older than I was, but he would take care of himself.

Last night we went for a walk on the beach, hand in hand. We kissed and I knew we both wanted something more so we went back to my room.

Sex made me feel half my age, and he spends all night in my bed.

Having no sex for so long, it seemed amazing.

The next day I woke up he had already gone without leaving his number.

At first, I was hurt, but when I returned home, I realized how much I had missed sex.

I've decided to change my life.

There's a man I see in the park while walking with my dog. We often stop for a conversation, and the next time I saw him, I talked to him about a drink.

He's married, but he seemed very thirsty so I managed to ride.

He asked for a kiss and then we ended up in my bed. Now we have good sex twice a week.

Since then I have added two more men married to my list, from none to three men.

My sister is terrified of what I'm doing. It's not her job, but should I feel guilty?

Psychologist answers:

Well, these men are all married so they have a wife at home who would not be happy about this, but they can take responsibility for their marital situation.

Why do you have three or four men in your life when you can only have one that interests you and you love and love you.

You must be badly hurt by your marriage.

Perhaps you feel that you are with married men. But that's not guaranteed.

You are jeopardizing your safety, your sexual health, and your broken heart, so take reality and start taking better care of yourself.