I have sex with a 29-year-old boy, but my husband...

I'm having sex with a young man from work. I don't mean I left my husband for him because he's married too.

Girl psychologist

My husband and I have been together for 23 years. We met when I was 19-year-old student. He was 22 years old and looked like the man of the world.

My work involves connecting with employees of other departments. A certain guy is very attentive. He always knows what he wears and how I do my hair.

I think I've got a little bit of flattery on my head. I found excuses to go and talk to him often.

We started spending time together for lunch and ended up going to the hotel. This is what we do every Monday and Friday.

I couldn't believe how exciting and satisfying sex it could be. I don't think I've ever done this with my husband. I love my husband in a way, but I'm not in love with him. He's always been a jealous guy.

He wouldn't let me go out with my friends or visit my family whenever I wanted.

It's important for me to have a good sex life and a life of mine instead of doing what my husband wants.

I'm 44 years old and our two boys have already grown up. One lives with his girlfriend and the other is in the army.

My boyfriend is 29 years old and married a girl for three years. We've made an effort to stop seeing each other, but we've always come back after a week or two.

I'm prepared to leave my marriage without asking for anything and my boyfriend is ready if I leave him, so why would I hesitate?

Psychological Answers

Your boyfriend has a little wife and kids, so there's a good chance of being there, no matter what he says.

Even if he has to leave, you have no idea whether this will work or cause misery for everyone.

Stop at least for now and make a serious effort to change your marriage. A good sexual life and perhaps your freedom may be the reasons.

Show your husband the things that need to be changed. Start seeing your friends and family as much as you want, and tell him calmly that he should keep you for himself or risk losing you.

You and your spouse may be responsible for your sexual life. Put some imagination and energy into it and you can transform it.