35-year-old story: My husband admitted that he knew that I had worked as a prostitute

On the show “Rudine” was broadcast the confession of a girl named Lola.

She was only 15 when she fell in love with a boy and took the so-called dream journey to Italy. A journey that turned into life's nightmare and that today nearly 20 years later left a lasting impression on her life.

Confession:

I was in school like any girl. I had my company, from a mutual friend, I met a boy. With my family, I had little closeness. Mom was very cold, both parents being honest. I've never heard a warm word, baby. Without telling anyone, I went to Vlora and left for Italy with a gomoo. I fear the darkness, but the sea at night is fear.

When she arrived in Italy, she found herself abandoned. The one who had offered him the world was now acquainted with hell.

It was a house that had other girls, I didn't see much. I started seeing the girls come out at night. One of the girls with a lot of fear and vulnerability told me, "The “where you came from." That's all she could say to me. Two days later someone came and told me, the rest is over, that's it. You gotta do something to stay here. I got a pair of underwear. I said I don't get out on the street. Then he started beating me and practicing violence until he reached out to me in front of girls. And then I couldn't resist it, it was impossible, because they burn you with cigarettes and put you in the bathtub to kill you, it's torture they can't endure. It's unfathomable, it was a horror, of ages from different races. I was there like a thing.

When did you start your day at work?

I started at 10 p.m. and till 5:00 in the morning.

How many men did you accompany in one night?

He shot two men within the hour.

In three months of exploitation in Bari, Italy, she had never accepted her fate, perhaps that was why events turned out later.

One I don't forget to die that person because it's the person I'm here. The day before, I had been threatened with a family threat, and I was just crying. He asked me after he realized that something was wrong, he told me that if you don't stay here you can give up. He kept me at his house for a few weeks, and then he helped me get away to Greece.

She was still very young and obviously had the right to live her life in all dimensions.

I was 22 years old when I met my husband when I met him, at first I didn't tell him because I was afraid he'd leave me without knowing who I really was. He was shocked, two days he didn't talk, and I thought it was over. Two days later he came and told me that's your past and I love you for who you are today.

Did you get touched when she accepted your past?

It's very significant because knowing the mentality of Albanians was achievement, and I'm very lucky. I'm the mother of two children, I have a son and a daughter. The first thing I want to do to my daughter and ask her every day is have her closeness to me, because this has helped me a lot.

In the position of the woman who has managed not only to survive but to walk and build free on her way, Lola has a message

Any moment a woman can guess it's in the end, but she's probably out. They ask you to do anything impossible not to be violated. Women have to do what they want. Don't let anyone rape them. /JOQ/